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Don't you hate when you feel like you pushed someone away?

I really liked someone, and he seemed to really like me. Now he doesn't seem as interested. I feel like I must have done something to change his feelings. I can't keep wondering though. I'm thinking about just moving on. Still sad though.
One of you needs to be brave enough to step up and talk about it. Invite him out for a drink and talk to him . Tell him exactly what you wrote here . Guys are very protective of their feelings and he may be thinking the same thing you are. If he tells you he likes someone else , you are still the adult in the room and you can say you wish him well and leave. If he鈥檚 shy you have just broken the ice . No matter what you two need to have a conversation. 馃槈
Sometimes you'll never know unless you ask. Sometimes their reply back is more telling
Doesn't mean you did anything, could of been something else things are always changing
Sometimes, when someone you really like gets to know you better, their initial liking changes. It happens. If this is really bothering you, then if it were me, I would ask him.
If it bothers you just ask him that's what I do, but I know when I push them away as well
perceptivei31-35, F
@Lilnonames I believe he'll say no. I don't know if that's the truth or not.
@perceptivei then either way u won't keep wondering
I do not. Someone has to betray my trust before I push them away.
perceptivei31-35, F
@Azlotto I meant push away in a different way, i suppose. Maybe push isn't the right word.

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