Don't you hate when you feel like you pushed someone away?

I really liked someone, and he seemed to really like me. Now he doesn't seem as interested. I feel like I must have done something to change his feelings. I can't keep wondering though. I'm thinking about just moving on. Still sad though.

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TexChik · F

One of you needs to be brave enough to step up and talk about it. Invite him out for a drink and talk to him . Tell him exactly what you wrote here . Guys are very protective of their feelings and he may be thinking the same thing you are. If he tells you he likes someone else , you are still the adult in the room and you can say you wish him well and leave. If he’s shy you have just broken the ice . No matter what you two need to have a conversation. 😉

Bexsy

Sometimes you'll never know unless you ask. Sometimes their reply back is more telling

4meAndyou · F

Sometimes, when someone you really like gets to know you better, their initial liking changes. It happens. If this is really bothering you, then if it were me, I would ask him.

Viper · M

Doesn't mean you did anything, could of been something else things are always changing

Azlotto · M

I do not. Someone has to betray my trust before I push them away.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@Azlotto I meant push away in a different way, i suppose. Maybe push isn't the right word.

Lilnonames · F

If it bothers you just ask him that's what I do, but I know when I push them away as well

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@Lilnonames I believe he'll say no. I don't know if that's the truth or not.

Lilnonames · F

@perceptivei then either way u won't keep wondering

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