Hmm I'm ngl I do miss being in a relationship

It's been nearly 8 years since I had an in person relationship. It took me 4-5 to move past it tbf, and with the pandemic where we just lost a year (aint that shit crazy?) and studying I've had 0 time for it.

I do get that niggling thought where I imagine that being the only relationship I'll ever have and dying alone sick somewhere where I'm not remembered 🙂

Or maybe I'll be like that guy who married his anime girlfriend 🤷 ah well.

I've had like 4 bad experiences with women in the last couple years, it's my fault for ignoring the signs. I wanna meet someone who's nice and doesn't have issues 😷 I can't fix people for them and I need my boundaries respected (shout-out to my previous stalker).

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SW-User

Nah, don't say that. You'll meet that special lady when you're least expecting it. You're exactly what somebody is looking for 🙂 Just dont rush into anything, and don't try to fix everyone. It is only but so much you can do, and you don't want to become emotionally drained in the process. Don't worry, when you meet the right one, it will make sense why the past relationships had to end. All for your good 🙂

SW-User

Pretty much the same here. I’m really at peace remaining single rn. I did have some shit to work through and I am. I want to be a good lover and partner one day. I yearn for that trust and companionship again but better. I gotta get better first.

You’re a good guy. Even if you do marry your anime gf 😆 I think someone will cherish you one day.

PepsiColaP

Why do you think you miss the red flags

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@PepsiColaP because Ive had issues with boundaries, and I tend to want to help people so I ignore it out of compassion and probably some psychological reasons I'm not aware of.

People get close too quick, but I don't know what's supposed to be healthy tbh.

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