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Would you remarry

After a divorce?

My marriage is almost done. After seeing my mom n dad go through a divorce in the 80s, and rocky marriages that followed. I promised myself I would not.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I wouldn’t no. I don’t need to be married to be happy or stable.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Keepitsimple well said
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Spumoni Thank you!
Magenta · F
I highly doubt it, although I'd like to have someone to spend time with, go to dinner with, have some fun together, etc..
Magenta · F
@Spumoni I'm sorry. Endings are hard. 🤗
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Magenta thanks. It's just time to go our separate ways. Have had some great support from fellow SW friends
WillaKissing · 56-60
@Magenta Exactly!
At this point in my life I seriously doubt I will. Not that i wouldn't find companionship with someone. But not marriage again
Mysterion619 · 26-30, M
@Bexsy better to love and have lost than nothing at all. You never know you might fall head over heels in love if you let yourself
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Im happily married but if anything were to change in the future, i wouldn't remarry. In my eyes marriage should be a one time thing,
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Beautywithin my dad is on #4
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Beautywithin Yep. Mom, #2.
I guess I'm more old-school in my thoughts on marriage.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
@Spumoni I would of thought more men would be reluctant to get married again as normally women get more from the divorce not less its ended on ok terms. Wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone marrying them to show they are more special then anyone else you've ever met, then later on it not working out would not make me want to do it again.
JustNik · 51-55, F
I don’t think I would ever tell myself anything one way or another. Would I join a bunch of dating sites and actively seek out husband No. 3?? No. It wouldn’t be a focus for me. Thus far, the greatest thing marriage has taught me is how to be happy alone. But if I tripped over someone who was everything I never expected to find and marriage felt like the right choice, I wouldn’t feel any need to stick to some idea of never marrying again that was born of past experiences. Highly likely it would take me longer to get there though.
Lilymoon · F
I did....although in hindsight I should have waited but really no regrets. I'm glad the 1st marriage is over. Big mistake.
Midnightoker1 · 61-69, M
if I ever do remarry I am going to find one of those government agents who can't talk about what she did all day..
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Midnightoker1 ^^This guy!!!!^^
Yes if I met someone special I would make that commitment again for the right one
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@SlippingAway Nice to hear you still have that desire
KatyO83 · 36-40, F
I'm divorced and don't want to remarry.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I'm not planning on it, the only reason I would is for insurance/medical decisions/power of attorney. A friend of mine had a csection go south and because she wasnt married the baby's dad wasn't allowed to make decisions, updates or be in the room unless her parents were there.
https://similarworlds.com/relationships/marriage/4430291-Does-your-marriage-need-healing-Dont-give-up-too
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
So sorry to hear that. If mine should ever take that route, that book will forever be closed to me. Honestly don’t think I could ever even give my heart in such a way again. Guess I’m just a one and done kind of person.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I told her basically the same thing.
Idk…I haven’t lived alone yet. Maybe it’s a wonderful feeling to live by yourself.

If you find someone you can live the rest of your life with, then by all means remarry.
Nelisme · 22-25, F
As I’ve never been married at all, I’m not one to give advise, but I say yes. If you find someone to share your life with, don’t say no. Living alone ain’t so great.
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
No. If I’ve married someone in the first place, it’s because I intended to love them for the rest of my life. There’s no plan B.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Ceinwyn I couldn't agree more
WillaKissing · 56-60
Nope, been single 15 plus years post my divorce and I can't afford to be naked and homeless again.

And I had to steal the bike to get home!
Eternity · 26-30, M
I'll likely never marry but if by some twist of fate I decided to do it once, i certainly would not try again if it failed.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
No. I've been married. No need to do that again.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
SW-User
Heck’s no I have trouble just keeping a women!
Dusty101 · F
No, I'd never marry again!
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I might but not anytime soon.
SW-User
that door has closed for me.
I would never bind myself to a man.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
If I divorce, I am not sure I would re-marry. I also wouldnt seek relationships with men...because I am bisexual and at this point in life realize that I have likely supressed what I desired in the first place.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@JaggedLittlePill I hear ya.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
I refuse to be controlled by the peen
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am not sure if I would get married again if I got divorced. Likely not but I wouldn’t completely rule it out because you never know what will happen.
caesar7 · 61-69, M
Maybe but she has to be very, very special.
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