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Happyheart1 · 31-35, M
I can understand totally
Ask yourself if you want to live like this til you or your spouse dies? That is the truth. Then either endure life or leave and be free to live however you wish. I divorced after enduring a cold, sexless union for 3 decades. You understand time. Sleeping alone in a bed meant for two. You know about wasted years and oceans of tears. If it is a medical condition, then you could negotiate an open marriage or get a friend wirh benefits. Oh people will say, everything else is wonderful, yet they know it is not. No group can tell you how to survive an unhappy, sexless marriage. They can listen. They can sympathize. It is your life. Freedom sings! I am happier now than ever before. I live largely. I am rarely unhappy or miserable. I face each day with a positive mindset. And I do not have to please someone who does not love me. I can find my true love now. So no excuses. Do something. Move forward. Or live without sex til you die. It is simple really. Stop killing your spirit and wasting your precious life.
Oside77 · 46-50, M
It’s hard when every other aspect of the marriage is good. The lack of intimacy makes so I want to look elsewhere to fulfill my needs
@Oside77 Ironic because avlack of intimacy destroys everything in the end. It is like an invasive weed.
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Pawan · 31-35, M
Couples of a marriage in sex also cheat so only sex is not fuel of marriage.
Mysteriousliaisons · 56-60, M
Aww sorry to hear 🤗. Here ya go 🍷
jaymic64 · M
I can relate
Gemineye · 56-60, M
I know the feeling all too well.
Simonsrk · 46-50, M
Welcome to my world! Current inhabitants: just me ☹️
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Just let it all out girl
booboo · M
after a few years, you get used to it
It is one day more than what you should have to suffer. Course you have kids. I had one too. Low libidos can be treated. Did he see a physician or is it your problem only? It is your life and you decide how you live it and how you are treated.
Persephone · 51-55, F
@PoetryNEmotion he would never admit there is a problem. He refused to see a doctor.
@Persephone That doesn't surprise me. Leaves the choice in your capable hands then.
And here I thought that was just my problem
@PoetryNEmotion happy yes. The other is debatable
@looking4thesun Happy matters first. The rest comes later. Take care.
You to. Thanks for the chat
bamaboylick · 61-69, M
10 long years of it for me. I moved on finally and found not only a loving relationship but my soulmate. This group on EP helped me so much,knowing I wasn’t alone. SW helped me to just be myself. I so feel for you
That group has been modified and still exists. Go to ILIASM.org
I was speaking to one of its leaders a few weeks ago. It might help you, I don't know. I met some pretty wonderful people there and some have achieved freedom now. Not one regrets it. Life is full of choices. Choose wisely.
I saw the group on EP. It was full of mostly miserable people. That is easily understandable. But a few helped others to consider freedom. That was the best part of it. And it is never too late to choose a life, Persephone.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I have gone through a whole gambit of emotions since our sex life came to a halt due to medical conditions. I hold out thinking that maybe one day some of it will return.
My friend is going thru that. Wish we could chat.
Fordman64 · 61-69, M
Sorry to hear that

 
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