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So something unexpected happened to me.

There was a dating app I stopped using in early May, & then last week Sunday, I created a dating profile on it again.

Within minutes, I started getting likes, & one of the men I hearted back is 51 years old. Now you all know I tend to be attracted to younger men, but I’m trying to be more sensible now. 😅

Well for the past week, he & I have texted & had audio & video calls. He makes me laugh so much, & there’s never a dull moment with him.

We were actually supposed to go on a date last night, but since I’m sick, we had to cancel our plans. He’s so sweet. He wanted to drop me off some soup & even offered to pick up some groceries for me & even take me to the ER if I needed to go! Can you believe it??

I just hope the connection & chemistry is the same in person. Hopefully I’ll get to see him next week as long as I’m 100% better. 🤞🏼

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Selah ·

Marry him.

marsbar · F

@Selah No. I’m only looking for a BF. Lol

darkknightt · M

Too early to say something concrete. It's the early love bird period, everything looks beautiful, give it a few months and things will not be vague anymore

SW-User

@darkknightt ☝️

marsbar · F

@darkknightt I know. Reality settles in after a few months of being together.

darkknightt · M

@marsbar couldn't put it together better than that

Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

That’s awesome! He sounds like a good one, cheers to you two. 🥂

marsbar · F

@Jeephikelove Thank you 😊

Coralmist · 41-45, F

Thats great!! Hope it goes well next week.

marsbar · F

@Coralmist Thank you 😊

Souls

This sounds like an amazing connection, although meeting strangers online may seem fresh, new, and exciting. Please don't share your address with strangers, people are crazy. Have you completed a background check?

marsbar · F

@Souls I haven’t, but he’s a 3rd grade teacher, & I know his last name already & which district he teaches for.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Sounds like you found a good man. Be careful, and then...

marsbar · F

@samueltyler2 I’ll be careful D 😇

Thats make me so happy haha. Hopefully he is as nice irl

marsbar · F

@PepsiColaP Me too! ☺️

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

Good Luck!😇👍

marsbar · F

@SoLeRiMix Thank you :)

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@marsbar Many in here would be 💔 after reading this post. You knowi t! Right?😇

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@marsbar You're welcome.😇

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marsbar · F

@OldMan70 That’s why I will make my final decision when we actually meet in person.

losthorizons · 51-55, M

See. You could have had me. I’m sweeter than that. You let that concept in your mind if someone younger. You’ve been missing out

marsbar · F

@losthorizons You live nowhere near me. Lol. And I have tried to connect with older men over the years, but I never found a real connection aside from platonic friendship. The chemistry just wasn’t there.

losthorizons · 51-55, M

But you haven’t met me 😁@marsbar

marsbar · F

@losthorizons You’re thousands of miles away. 🤔

CommandLine · 56-60, M

Thats great.
Wish it was that easy for everyone.
Whats the app lol

marsbar · F

@CommandLine I don’t want to say the apps name. Lol. But believe me, 3+ yrs of trying wasn’t easy.

CommandLine · 56-60, M

@marsbar Hope all goes well for you 👍

marsbar · F

@CommandLine Thank you 😊

DreamyCrush · F

He sounds kind. I hope all goes well once you finally meet. Hope you're better soon.

marsbar · F

@DreamyCrush Thank you. He is very sweet. 😇

BeefySenpie · M

I’m trying to be more sensible now

Where’s the real marsbar gone? 🤔

Hope you guys hit it off in person 🎆

marsbar · F

@BeefySenpie Lol

I mean, younger guys are still hot, but they can’t really meet my emotional needs.

Thanks Beefy 😊

SW-User

Lucky guy gets to see those lovely legs..

Hope it works out for you

marsbar · F

@SW-User Thank you 😇

Teslin · M

Good for you. I hope you get to meet him soon.
Speedy recovery!!

marsbar · F

@Teslin Thank you. I hate being sick. 😅

braveheart21 · 61-69, M

Hope it works for you marsy... Really do honey

marsbar · F

@braveheart21 Thank you ☺️

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

This is lovely. Wishing all the very best for you

marsbar · F

@GJOFJ3 Thank you ☺️

MtnManJohn · 61-69, M

Best of luck! Hope you’re feeling better soon.

marsbar · F

@MtnManJohn Thank you. Hope so too. 😇

Fairydust · F

Aw I hope it works out, sounds like a keeper.

marsbar · F

@Fairydust Thank you ☺️

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Good for you!
It will be lovely

marsbar · F

@Strictmichael75 I hope so. 😇

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

Well, you are a special lady

marsbar · F

@ronisme1 Thank you ☺️

Dewms

Omygod im so kilig

marsbar · F

@Dewms One step at a time Dewie 😂

HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F

Go get ‘em Mars!!! 😉

marsbar · F

@HeavenBesideYou Haha. Thank you 😊

BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

Good luck 👍

marsbar · F

@BridgeOvertroubledWaters Thanks :)

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

😊 Lovely

SkeetSkeet · 100+, F

Geratric peen is where it is at

marsbar · F

@SkeetSkeet The balls start to feel dryer & pruned up at that point. 🫢

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

Good luck😊👍

marsbar · F

@Justenjoyit Thanks 😊

SW-User

Go get ‘em!

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I hope it works out for you

marsbar · F

@iamonfire696 Thank you ☺️☺️

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@marsbar you are welcome

SW-User

Sounds promising

marsbar · F

@SW-User Let’s hope so.

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