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What's a deal breaker for you on a date?

I mean, I know many things can go wrong, but what's that one thing that you just can't....
Newandimproved · 61-69, M Best Comment
if they say that have to get back early before their husband gets home
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Yeah, I can see that being a deal breaker.

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People who can't communicate. Which sounds like a no brainer but a lot of people just can't. They can talk but they can't actually have a meaningful exchange. Anything that resorts to censorship or not being able to listen, I can't do that, because it becomes a waste of my time. I'm willing to be patient but if nothing come out of it then forget it.
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
I am with you on this one.
Fernie · F
Purple...that is number one with me too
goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F
Lack of manners or coming over 15 minutes late without a good excuse.
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
"I was just hiding the bodies of the other dates."
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CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
@bearinthebigbluehouse: :O lol
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
@CrazyCatLady: Bears work in mysterious ways. ┴┬┴┤ᵒᴥᵒᶅ/ SHh shsh shhs hsh hshshshhh!
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Hmmm ... lol, my list is probably longer than most (hence why I'm single), but here's a few...
- smoking and/or drugs (sorry, I can't deal)
- appearance (I promise to put in some effort, but I'd like it to be mutual)
- being late (sorry, I'm OCD on this one ... tell me whatever time you want, I don't care when, but at that time lets be where we're supposed to be)
- touchy-feely (look...I want to get physical as much as the next girl, but the time for that isn't five minutes into the first date; please respect personal space!)

Lol, I could go on, but now you know why I'm single! 🤓
Degbeme · 70-79, M
So no public farting or burping? 🤔
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Degbeme: Like I said, I could go on... 🤦
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@sarabee1995: 🤣
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poor hygiene, foul mouth out loud in public.obnoxious behavior
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
@SBelle: Ew
I'll assume you're talking about first date, because expectations change the longer you date someone.

So in the case, refusal to split the bill is a deal breaker.
Someone talking about their ex in every conversation
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Absolutely! I am with you!
I've been in this very scenario and it was a wreck. Dude wanted to keep talking so I kept ordering appetizers after appetizer just to make the time pass.
He got sort of scared though when the bill came. I paid the money (cash) and just left. I wasn't interested. Funny thing though is he followed me outside and wanted to hang out again... I told him I didn't think it was a good idea and that maybe he should work on things w his ex and walked away
GlassDog · 41-45, M
It's not one thing. I think you just know when it's not going to work.
AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M
Constant attention to their phone
SW-User
Being on their phone.
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Agreed
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
If they smoke.
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Not a smoker fan either!
FalllenAngel · 31-35, F
dirty fingernails...
Excessive drinking
@CrazyCatLady: sure was. But I never told him to be silly to drink, text and drive
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Of course. It's all on him
@CrazyCatLady: yes.
Fernie · F
coming back to the table from the Ladies room to find them gone...BIG deal breaker!!
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
lol, absolutely.
Hawnheart · 61-69
Bringing her whole family along for a free meal.
If she gives me a heads up then I would cook the meal.
Sabrina01 · 36-40, F
When your date asks to take YOUR leftovers home. (truestory)
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
@Sabrina01: OMG!!!!
Lolco · 36-40, M
@Sabrina01: lmao 😂😂😂😂
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You know, as crazy cat ladies go, you're quite lovely
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
lol🐈 thanks
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@CrazyCatLady: Rawwwr
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
having to make a date in the first place.
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
More of a #yolo style?
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they hid a pint in their purse...
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
WHAT
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I hope I never have to find out.
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CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
lol xD Sounds like a life plan!
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CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Sounds like fun!
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CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
This escalated quickly.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
Bad hygiene.
Lolco · 36-40, M
If she has a bitchy personality it's done
Lolco · 36-40, M
I never said she's a bitch lol ..... I said "bitchy attitude" completely totally different from calling someone a bitch, something I just won't do, even if she is a bitch 😂
CrazyCatLady · 31-35, F
Bitches can be cool. These type or girls aren't lol
Lolco · 36-40, M
lol
Had a date whit a girl she showed up late 15 min did not want me to walk her home never called me sooo i mooved on and lost track of her

 
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