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Do u fear or worry about being disliked by others ? 🤔🧐

Hello friends and neighbors. It is the antagonistic one [b]Mr Z. [/b] Now we all know that some people fear [b] rejection. [/b]. Or have a fear of being [b]alone. [/b] But what about the fear of being [b]disliked or hated. [/b]
I am sure there is someone here on Earth 🌎 who feels that way about you. Does it matter to you? It surely does not matter to me.
Idgaf. I'm me. Do you fear being [b]disliked [/b] or [b]hated [/b] by others. Answers please. Best answer will win. 🙂.



scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M Best Comment
Ultimately , you will find your own tribe.

People who enjoy , value , admire, love and respect your company and vice versa.

Filter / Shield yourself from the people who want to control , disrespect and abuse / insult you.

Life is too short to deal with people who are out there with knives to get you.

I've always believed that those certain individuals that hate so passionately for no reason whatsoever, have some serious issues. Unless they actually know you personally or you've done something to hurt, anger, or genuinely tick them off. I try to avoid confrontational and aggressive individuals, they're obviously looking to start an argument.

I can genuinely dislike someone if they are cruel, nasty, cold, narcissistic individuals who seem to be devoid of warmth or compassion. I honestly don't waste my time and energy on haters. I've always tried to be the best person I know how to be, honest, warm and compassionate. I figure if someone doesn't like me for whatever their reasons, it's their prerogative.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@sensualbeauty1 There are some who [b] deserve [/b] to be disliked. Thanks for responding. 🙂
@Zonuss Hey Mr. Z ,well there are definitely a few nasty people around. Thank you appreciated..☺️
@antonioioio Thanks so much very appreciated my far-away friend. 😊
I think after a certain age you stop caring. The only thing i dislike is the mentality of.." i dislike them..you must too."
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Bexsy With age comes [b] maturity.[/b] 🙂
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Bottom line. Doesn't matter how good. Nice, attractive, etc you are... Not everyone's going to like you
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@ozgirl512 Some people will hate you more if you are beautiful. 🙂
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@Zonuss true, but there's bugger all you can do about it, so leave it out of the thinking
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
As a teenager I did but after 30 I stopped caring. If someone doesn’t like me that’s on them, not me
SW-User
If I know they dislike me, it's uncomfortable for me to be around them. But it's not a fear it's acceptance.

Hate, Idk about having real haters for now and it's not something I care about now, just if I considered close and they ended up like that with me. I'd keep the distance.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Thanks for your response Gaiia. 🙂
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I think humans are social creatures, even psychopaths will go out of their way to have humans in their life even if it's using them. It does seem ironic that we as a species are social even when we purposely try not to be. So on some level everyone worries even if on a subconscious level, we will look for validation in SOME sort of small way, being on SW, there's actually a lot of people trying to validate themselves to total strangers within their group dynamics.

For me personally, I do worry, I also care about people way more than I let on. But that caring stops once I sense I'm being manipulated or that the person is either overtly aggressive or passive aggressive.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SatanBurger Good point.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I don’t fear. Life is too much fun. Plus, how seriously should you really take unknown faces on the internet?
I am changing.
My beloveds' dislike for any aspect of my life was initially concerning for me but with time, now I see the bigger picture and accept what I can't change. This helps me mellow down more than earlier with All of Them while we are conversing.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@sspec 🙄
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I’d think I was doing something wrong if no one hated me or what I stand for. I remember reading what Jesus said:
“If the world hates you, just remember that it has hated me before it hated you.“
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@GJOFJ3 Amen. 😌
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
Nah, i don't pay attention to that. Besides it's absurd to think i would please every person I've met or even long time friends. As long as i don't get punched in the face, I'm good 😏
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Purplehaze78 Exactly.
SW-User
[c=4C0073]idgaf anymore honestly .. maybe age has hardened my heart .. maybe i'm just allergic to bullcrap ..

Also, that globe up there, it's supposed to be triangle 👽[/c]
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User A triangle 📐. 😂
LadyJ · F
I've been hated by a few all my life.. but I'm at the age now where i couldn't give a monkeys ass who likes me or not..aslong as the people i care about like me i don't worry about it
cycleman · 61-69, M
I take it is a given, very few likes me and no one connects with me. Thus I get to be a loner which I appreciate lots of times but not everyday
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
I don’t think I was born to win a popularity contest. Can’t make everyone happy so do the best I can and do the right thing.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
I doubt anyone enjoys being disliked.. However, the most important person (by far) who I want to be liked by is ME..😷
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Straylight · 31-35, F
No one will click with everyone. Certain personalities will just clash.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Straylight Personalities clash here daily .🙂
Changeisgonnacome · 61-69, F
My country makes a point of arming the"others" who make a point of disliking my kind.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Changeisgonnacome What are you talking about. 🤔
Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
I already know I’m not liked by people. That doesn’t bother me.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Jeffrey53 🤔
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
I would love Trump to dislike me....or hate me. Would make my day.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@KiwiBird Is that so. 🙂
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I really don't care who does or doesn't like me anymore. Their problem, not mine.
Lostpoet · M
🤷🏼‍♂️i hate everybody
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Lostpoet Why. 🤔
Lostpoet · M
@Zonuss 😠i got my reasons
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Lostpoet Ok then..
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
I couldnt give 2 f--ks . I am who I am take it or leave it .
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Rhode57 😂
Entwistle · 56-60, M
No. I hope idiots and dickheads dislike me.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Entwistle 😂
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
You can’t please everyone so no point in worrying about it
bowman81 · M
There are a few who I care if they like me or not. Precious few.
Charisma · F
Maybe way back in high school but not now
SW-User
i am well past caring
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Caring. How sweet. 🙂
SW-User
I really don't lol
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Bless your little heart beautiful..🙂🌞
SW-User
Not even a little
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Cool. Be you. 🙂
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Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Thanks Rooster. 🐔
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