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Would you go on a date with someone you were just mildly interested in?

Even though you already had someone else in mind as your "main" crush and are also simultaneously seeing them?
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
if I am dating my crush I wouldn't be dating anyone else.
Peaceful · F
Nah, why waste either person's time? 🤔
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
Well, I was only looking at it from my perspective but actually I wouldn’t now because I don’t want to waste the other person’s time if he was into me and I just like going on dates regardless who it is. If we both mutually shared the same feelings, sure. Like if it was just going to be a casual date
Judas · 36-40, F
No, that would seem pointless.
Tinkles · 26-30, F
I hope they both find out and castrate you using a spoon
somedude15 · 22-25, M
[@1051468,Tinkles] find out? Lol, it's not like I'm the only one they're seeing. I learned the hard way that people on dating apps always see multiple people at the same time. I personally am not enjoying doing it though
Tinkles · 26-30, F
[@595086,somedude15] that actually makes me feel sick
Why would you?
somedude15 · 22-25, M
[@1226502,Chancer] apparently in the dating app world you're supposed to always keep your options open
To people you’re attracted to.I’d avoid the complications..life is complicated enough [@595086,somedude15]
somedude15 · 22-25, M
[@1226502,Chancer] yeah I am physically attracted to them, but I guess for me to be interested for real it takes a lot more than just physical attraction. And I'm not just feeling it yet. Also, I already have someone I'm seeing that I feel she really good chemistry with, but it's too early I guess
Why?
I can't think of a reason.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
If you’re dating someone that gives you a good vibe, you owe it to her to give her 100% of your attention.

Now, if she tells you she’s seeing multiple men, it’s different. She may not want to be tied down. To me, that never works. I’d walk away or friend zone.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Simultaneous??? maybe you are a candidate for being poly...
somedude15 · 22-25, M
[@7393,masterofyou] nah, I am not interested in a polyamorous relationship. So are you saying it's quite normal in American dating culture to only see one person at a time?
[@595086,somedude15] No not at all but it looks like you are already polyamorist activity and you may not realize it or evolving or exploring its all natural.....
you shouldn't cause thats the road to ruin imo
MarkS · 51-55, M
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