How can you be crazy about someone for months....

... and then suddenly lose interest?

Like, you're smitten with someone. You give signals. And when that other person finally reciprocates, you lose interest.

What does it mean? How can that happen? 😥

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SW-User

How about years? And then you find out it was all a lie. And they were just using you.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@SW-User That's terrible :(

kentex35 · 100+, M

I'd like to say easy but maybe that's my ignorance showing. It's happened to me once at least, the last time lasting from November to May. That's when I found "the one". Nigh on 40 years seems like more. I'm kidding. Just because I refer to her as the broom pilot is probably dangerous. I don't want to get turned into a newt. Talk like that is probably why I got stood up more times than a three legged chair.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@kentex35 😥 🥀

Ingwe · F

the hunt is better than the meal

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@Ingwe I don't understand people :(

TheGoodGuy · M

Some love the chase, then when they have what they were chasing in their hands the game is over for them.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@TheGoodGuy Makes sense... It hurts

TheGoodGuy · M

@JupiterDreams I'm sorry sweetheart. Look, the answer I gave was probably me projecting than anything else bcoz I'm kinda in a similar situation. Tbh with you there's so many reasons that it could be. If you really feel strongly about this person then it might be worth having a totally open and honest conversation about what's going on and see where you stand with them and then take it from there ❤️