Having an orgasm destroys my energy stamina etc for up to a whole daytime (12+ hrs) after - what's your experience ?

I don't seem to have any way to overcome that if I have an orgasm be it with another Actual Human (tm) or with Mrs Palmer (and/or her twin sister) I am zapped of stamina energy drive desire and feel tired for up to a whole daytime (12 + hrs) afterwards.

I've always experienced it like that. How is it for you? Does it differ between men and women? I understand that female orgasms are totally different to male orgasms.

I wonder what causes it? Any feeling of goodness evaporates very fast.