Why You Shouldn't Believe in Soul Mates

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201207/why-you-shouldnt-believe-in-soul-mates

the jist of it is that in essence everyone be like "When they left they didn't even tell me what I did wrong."

Of course not, they don't give you a chance to improve cause they think it's either meant to be or isn't, all or nothing is a terrible approach to relationships.