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If a woman you liked..

Needed to leave your first time meet up/date for some reason (and she later tells you she was so nervous and had to go), would you still give her another chance? Would you look down on her? In honesty.
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Spaceshipcaptain · 41-45, M
I would give her a 2nd chance, why not.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@518144,Spaceshipcaptain] Thanks ✨🐞
LilSapphieGirl · 26-30, F
Yes, definitely. Anxiety is a real problem that requires patience and understanding to work through.
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
If you like someone, you always give another chance. Everyone is nervous on a first date.

The exception might be if I thought the early exit was an intentional "ditch", but if the girl is still communicating after the abbreviated date, there may well not be that impression.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@570785,NotJamieM] Thanks 🙂
MilitantIrishman · 26-30, M
Yeah. I could understand that and I'd give her another chance.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@8731,MilitantIrishman] 🙂👍 Thanks
I would, and no I wouldn't look down on her for being anxious
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@776292,BeefySenpie] Ty Beefy🌻 Appreciate that
Allelse · 31-35, M
I'd give her another chance, but then I can be a real softy sometimes. I just like to make folk feel comfortable and safe.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@415694,Allelse] 🙂🌟Thanks
Allelse · 31-35, M
[@562099,Coralmist] I'd suggest talking on the phone a bit more next time, and we could meet up in a place where she feels more safe and secure.
ilakilak · 31-35, M
[b]NEVER[/b]

Understanding others feelings is all part of being in a friendship
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@1208102,Barry] Thanks 🌸
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
I've been on a "gotta go, just got a phone call" date before, so I'm not sure if I would be interested or not.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
Also sorry you've dealt with anxiety..sucks.[@562099,Coralmist] [@329500,uncalled4]
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
[@562099,Coralmist] It does, but you have its number and you will defeat it.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@329500,uncalled4] Thank you 🌼
TheotherAndy · 41-45, M
Second chance of course, why not?
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@568699,TheotherAndy] Thank you 🌟
TheotherAndy · 41-45, M
You’re very welcome [@562099,Coralmist]
ImRileyTheDog · 18-21, F
I think that’s really depends on situation and if the other person had good vibes about her or not
fun4us2b · 61-69, M
If I felt they were being honest I probably would.
SomewhatDamaged · 41-45, M
No way in hell.
SomewhatDamaged · 41-45, M
[@562099,Coralmist] If it was our first time meeting and she left, I would not give her another chance.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@771850,SomewhatDamaged] Even explaining why and what happened?
SomewhatDamaged · 41-45, M
[@562099,Coralmist] I don't think so.
Abstraction · 56-60, M
Yeah, no problem. And the people who would give another chance are possibly more likely to have the kind of sensitivity that is good in relationships.
Coralmist · 36-40, F
[@608929,Abstraction] Thanks🌟
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I would be as gentle as I could to help ease her anxiety.

And dating is not necessary. Just being in her presence is enough.
Iamonfire666 · 31-35, F
I would give another chance

 
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