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What were some signs you noticed before your relationship ended?

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Shiki ·
That they didn't care about anything but themself.
Lolox · F
[@1010068,Shiki] what were some things that changed showing their selfish behavior? Like not asking how your day was anymore or not spending any time with you?
Shiki ·
[@262385,Lolox] Yes, and just rude whenever I wasn't happy.
ImRileyTheDog · 18-21, F
Was hesitant and thought it was maybe a bad idea but did it anyway

I was right lol, I never listen to myself
pleasingyouorme · 41-45, M
That no matter how hard we tried to communicate together? Somehow it ended up in misunderstandings and mixed-up emotions.
Nanori · 26-30, F
Last one was alllllll red flags from the beginning lol
AiKillsPedophiles · 90-99, M
[@934648,Nanori] or, was your penis too big for the opening? 😦😯
Nanori · 26-30, F
[@1218634,AiKillsPedophiles] fk off
AiKillsPedophiles · 90-99, M
[@934648,Nanori] you first and I’ll follow
Tobasco · 26-30, F
He became very distant but would still reassure me that everything was fine
LostOrchid · 18-21, F
That I should always be alone 🤗
LostOrchid · 18-21, F
[@262385,Lolox] hehe I'll pass 🙃
Lolox · F
[@1209458,LostOrchid] you're right, people suck. What about cat or dog or fish? 🥰❤
LostOrchid · 18-21, F
[@262385,Lolox] I'll get those one day
Beatbox34 · 26-30, M
I was broken up in December of 2018. However, I knew a year ahead that this was about to happen.

The signs were imminent. She ghosted me and we didn't talk for months. She felt no remorse doing so either. Then she didn't care how I felt.

I remember one time that she made a Facebook page and didn't add me. It hurt me bad when I found her but I never mentioned it to her until the breakup. I used to remember checking her Facebook page and she'd post new pictures smiling. That kinda explained that she never cared ever. When she broke up, she lied with the flow. I even understood it but I was too sad to point it out.
Lolox · F
[@476293,Beatbox34] that's terrible. Sorry to hear, I dont understand how you treat people you cared about so much ,at one point, in time so horribly.
Beatbox34 · 26-30, M
[@262385,Lolox] It's okay but some people don't care if you have a heart or not.

Well it happens. We can't expect anything from anyone ever.
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
Lots of her whereabouts were unaccounted for.
Reject · 26-30, M
A lot more distance. Very little interest in me.
pleasingyouorme · 41-45, M
[@471800,Reject] Inertia can happen in any relationship. You have to keep them evolving, changing, and growing with nurture. That's just the way they are and that takes both parties involved. You can also find you grow into separating paths
He stopped telling me he loved me 🥴

He didn't want to talk to me or anything and would get mad when I would ask if we could spend time together

He would get so mad and curse at me

Just all that fun stuff 🥴💔
Bang5luts · M
[@428450,MaterialGirlCx] you didn't ask to see his peener? Lol😋
Lolox · F
[@428450,MaterialGirlCx] sorry to hear but from what I hear it was a blessing in disguise, he sounds like a dick👎
DeluxedEdition · 22-25, F
The physical and mental abuse was increasing and remaining consistent
Lolox · F
[@25801,DeluxedEdition] sorry to hear but I'm glad it's over then, nobody deserves that ❤
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Everyone knows the drill. Getting treated extra nice at first and when you react positively getting accused of being too clingy kicks it off.

Unreasonable arguments, name calling, emotional withdraw and not hearing them call you by name. Eventual brooding. Starts working long hours and into the weekend.

Sleeping more. Odd things happening around the home. Items go missing. Sudden need to fetch things at the store.

I know every single cunning trick. Been through it a handful of times.
mother wasn't impressed
PepsiColaP · 22-25, F
Conflict in interests mainly conflict in beliefs I just didnt like the person anymore or maybe I saw them for who they were
summersong · F
He had to be right all the time

I had to beg him to take me to the hospital when I was sick with meningitis and nearly died

Accused me of prying when I asked any personal questions but expected me to tell him everything I did or thought

By that I mean he actually wanted me to tell him what I talked about in therapy so he could make sure he approved of what I was saying. To my therapist. In therapy.

When I caught him in a lie he freaked out and asked me why I couldn’t just let him lie

Oh and the girlfriend he would have over while I was around was kind of a problem
Lolox · F
[@334441,summersong] were these things he's done in the beginning or new changes in behaviour towards the end?
AiKillsPedophiles · 90-99, M
Not enough sex. Stoopid hand was like never in the mood eh.
Fairydust · F
I stopped caring.
Red500 · 41-45, M
She suddenly learnt new sex positions. Thanks to her affair

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