What's your opinion/definition on cheating? Yes i do believe if someone hides the truth of...

Bubbles · 36-40, F

Well, I have chatted with people who were "getting divorced", and turned out they were still "getting divorced" years later. That's probably why you got the reaction you got, especially if that person has had an experience like that. However, based on the situation you described, if you actually have an end date for divorce, I would not call that cheating.

BalmyNites · F

You cannot legally be “currently single” if your divorce is not yet finalised. Legally you are still married. However, it would seem that in your case this is just a technicality & any guy who has a problem with that clearly has issues - NEXT!

SW-User

I don't use the term *cheating*, because that word implies that love and marriage are just games. Adultery is when two people become involved in an actual physical relationship with someone other than their partner, although I would probably include sexting also under that definition.

Flirting or friendships with other people are not adultery, but you can't be too careful who you talk to or what you say...and one thing can lead to another.

In your case, I would say that your best option is to wait until the divorce is finalised, then there will be fewer misunderstandings/complications.

WonderGirl1

That's not cheating.

4meAndyou · F

No. Your divorce is in process, and the a-hole from the dating site just waved a red flag in your face. Tell him to cuck off and die.

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

I think since your relationship has ended, you are not cheating.

Trippin · F

Situations are bound by their content. You've obviously moved on and the fish you've landed via a dating site needs a solid berating upside his judgmental head. Go on about your badass self and be free. ❤

Budwick · 70-79, M

[quote]do u think I'm cheating...?[/quote]

No.

[quote]he berated me for cheating on my husband.[/quote]

Next!

DownTheStreet · 51-55, M

You’re not cheating, forget the judgmental guy

plasticpants02 · 61-69, M

Definitely not cheating,

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

No you are not cheating!

Orangehotrod · 61-69, M

No!

Justenjoyit · 56-60, M

Why do people call it cheating when it takes two to make it work, plus if you are not getting your needs met then look else where, Marriage is just a government institution so that the responsibility lies with someone else and not them.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

No. You're just doing what's right for you.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

No

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Your relationship is over. You aren’t living together and only have contact about the divorce. It’s not cheating.