Do we need to “accept” that we were rejected, after we were rejected, to “heal” the wound?

It’s been 4 yrs and it still bothers me. New unrelated rejections keep pulling it back up too. But how I was rejected is not okay i dont know if I could ever “accept” it like it’s “no big deal”. The memory hurts still....help??

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VladG94 · 26-30, M

Just my 2 cents, let it go and don't ascribe to the person so much, did you chase him and treat him like an idol? Because that very much is not going to help you in the long run, just find ways to get him interested in you instead of pursuing him..