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What should I do?

So, there's this guy that I've known for two years, and I always felt that there was something between us. Last year I really started to see it when we would meet up and talk for hours until the early morning. We just seemed to get each other. I could see it in his eyes how much he cared. Anyways, over the summer, we kept talking and made it quite clear that we were attracted to each other and wanted to do something about it. We came up with a ton of ideas for what we wanted to do together when we got back to school, and overall, it was going well.

When we got back to school, we met up and he asked if I liked hiking and suggested we go hiking together sometime. I also told him that I preferred white wine to red and he said "he'll change that." It appeared he wanted to play a more active role in my life. I even met some of his family at a rock concert he took me to. Because they thought we were dating and he called me "his girl," I thought we were dating. When I asked him what we were, he said he always thought we were just friends. And that despite the fact that he claims we have a connection and attraction, he said he wasn't looking for a relationship with anybody.

He said he's 110% okay with remaining friends, but gets jealous anytime I mention another guy. I really care for him and know that I couldn't engage in anything casual with him as it would hurt me if he got with anyone else. What should I do? I can't drop him completely from my life. Doesn't it seem like he's incapable of being friends too?
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That could be a multitude of things. You have to move on with your life, if he steps up and says he wants more in the future, cool.
But don't wrack your brains or put your life on hold for him.