Might be the third time someone s leaving me over acting cold and distant

I gave up on relationships like 10 years ago

Terrible cycle that is hard to break out of. It is a shame anyone would leave you for those reasons though. At times like that, it is best to give the person a bit of space but also try to be supportive at the same time. But that is just my opinion.

I find it easier just to be alone than to seek any relationship

been there, my heart shut down by the time I was 30

Just a though, maybe you should try to stop that.

That'll show 'em.

Break the cycle

Self paranoid stop thinking so much and live😉🌹

There's only one person who can change that ...

or maybe they did not try very hard ?