Guys: does an enthusiastic date put you off?

You get talking to a girl (maybe for some months) and before you go on a date she shows enthusiasm and even states that she likes you. Does that put you off?

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Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

No. Although I'm not into hurting people's feelings or being hurt myself. I think honesty is best. If u think it's a real possibility go with it.

Peppa · 31-35, F

@Thingschange4444 umm there's someone I like but he's keeping me at arm's length. So I've concluded I'm just a time filler...

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

@Peppa Yes don't be messed about. If u can clearly see he's keeping u at arms length then he's probably not worth holding onto. Play the reverse psychology game and act like u dgaf. See if he comes snivelling. Some guys tend to do that. Failing that just move on. Your still very young 🙂

Peppa · 31-35, F

@Thingschange4444 I'm not too trusting. I think he's wasting my time

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

@Peppa Follow ur gut instinct. 🖒

Peppa · 31-35, F

@Thingschange4444 thanks x

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

@Peppa N P. 🙂