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Have you ever lost someone because of your behavior?

Someone that will never accept you again in their life?

I haven't but I have shut many people out. When they cross a certain point or boundary, there is no returning. I might still love them, as I do of any great friend or lover, but I would never let them in my life again.
Yes. He forgave me and confessed that he couldn't be without me a week later. Lol.

I was going through a tough time, and I just didn't know how to handle myself... and I suppose he got tired of my shit.

Getting dumped once was a lesson well learned. It was devastating to think that he didn't love me for me.

But in reality, I was oblivious to the way I treated him and many others... it's kind of difficult to love and feel loved by someone who is always giving you a hard time.

It took me a while to understand, but now that I do... I think before I speak and act. I'm a work in progress.

I'm very lucky to have parents and a boyfriend who are very loving and understanding.
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NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
Do you always tell them what it was they did they did that crossed that line for you?
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NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
@wildrosez I can only pray that one day I will hear from him again. I would do anything to prove to him how much he means to me.
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SW-User
I have done that, it is hard, but what can you do?
SW-User
Yes. I was shunned by friends and family because I wouldn't let the past go. They got sick of dealing with my anger and other issues.
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@wildrosez I'm overcoming it now, but I won't try to get back in touch with them. I think it's understandable that they wanted the distance (I was pretty venomous), but I've come to want that distance too. I don't like how that all went down or how it felt. I don't like being seen the way I was. So I'm fine with them being done with me.
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LyricalOne · F
Sadly I've said things that can't be taken back and have altered the relationship forever. 😞
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purplepen · 51-55, F
Yes, I lose a lot of people by standing up to them. They want dishrags or battle-axes, nothing in between.
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Yeah, i think the way i am is a kind of deterrant of some sort.
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@wildrosez Yes, the purpose driven life ...:)
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BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
Yes.

And otherwise.

 
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