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I just wanted to know if what would you do in this scenario.

*You have an ex and you've dated for almost 5 years in a long distance relationship. You haven't met because you were both not ready financially. You broke up for how many times because you thought that your relationship won't last because of your distance. You've been trying to forget her but you can't find someone else like her.

*While trying to forget her, you met someone. She loves you from your worst to your best. She would do everything for you. Because she cared too much for you, you dated her. She gave up everything for you but you don't love her like the way she loves you. After a couple of years of dating her, you've found out that she has a mental problem. Because things are not just working between the two of you, you've decided to break up with her but she doesn't want too.

*Your ex came back and wants you back. She said that she's ready and will visit you. You told her that you're already dating someone else but she said that she's fine with it. You still love her so you dated her while you're dating someone else. The girl you're dating with mental problem might do something bad when she finds out that you're cheating on her.

Your ex is already planning to visit you this year. What would you do?
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F Best Comment
Well it sounds like things are already in motion. You cannot control the actions of another person. So while it is important to show empathy and compassion you have also need to be honest. You need to admit to girl 2 that you care about her but do not see the relationship as anything beyond friendship. Also you have not spent time with girl 1 ld so you may only have a friendship with her too. As long as you are honest with everyone involved, follow your heart but pack your head too because it's important
JennyACTII · 26-30
@Fungirlmmm hey..thank you for your advice. I'll try to do that. I'm just scared.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@JennyACTII I can understand bring scared from both girls, but one thing you know already is that you aren't in love with girl 2. So you deal with that first and then you do what you need to do with girl 1