Always falling for taken men : what's wrong with me?!

When I was actually done with crying over this guy whom cheated on his gf with me (yes, I know) and when I realized that I'm not gonna die over him, I think I am falling for another guy who is in a relationship 😑 I have this guy who keeps asking me out (he's nice and he really likes me) but I don't want to go out with him.
Why do I always seek troubles?! I know I will hurt myself again, why am doing this?! Am I crazy?

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SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

I must say this does remind me a lot of how when I was in a relationship, there was always other girls who I would notice checking me out when I was in places with my girlfriend, whereas I knew if I had been there all by myself, then they wouldn't have given me a second look.

Maybe that's not you, but don't feel like you need another woman to validate a man's worthiness for your attention. If a guy is attractive and treats you with the utmost respect, just give him a chance.

At the same time, I somewhat understand how you feel. I don't actively seek out taken women, but it seems like every time I find myself interested in someone, it turns out she's taken or in some cases also engaged or married :(