Women: Have you ever blamed yourself for failed marriages/relationships?
If so, what did you need to realize that it was not your fault, and that you could move on in life; thereby, being able to have a relationship again?
56-60, M
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VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]I always do that. I tend to over analyze everything. I honestly had to force myself to realize that there is nothing wrong with loving someone and seeing the good in people. Sometimes things just don’t workout no matter how hard you try. Sometimes nothing you do is enough and you have to let it go or lose yourself. I’m the type that will give twice what I get. I’ll try and try to fix it. But when I’m done, I’m done. I’ve already given everything I can and that’s upsetting and frustrating to some people. It not your fault they didn’t give their all when you did. It’s a hard lesson to learn but a necessary one. [/c]
aldnazmeister · 56-60, M
Excellent point that you made @VioletRayne; sometimes relationships just are not meant to work out, no matter how hard we try.
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@aldnazmeister [c=#4C0073]i don’t really believe in meant to be or not meant to be. Every relationship has the potential to last forever it’s the effort you put in and how much each person values the relationship. If there’s an imbalance then it won’t work. Each person has to put in the same amount of work.[/c]