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I am often left to deal with issues that should be dealt with together

Not even regarding the kids or household shit

I mean personal shit… I am kind of expected to shut up. Any time I draw attention to shit that has/had hurt me… I am told that I never allow him to speak and he has hurt too.

I’m always left feeling torn… am I being psychotic and holding grudges…. Or is it that he always gaslights me and I’m left to feel it’s all on me
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
Aww. We are complex creatures, much more so than men. It sucks for us sometimes eh. You're not psychotic and you're totally right to feel the way you do.
Plasticbag · 100+, M
Only you can answer those things..relationships are so personal. I’m sorry it’s so painful though I’ve been there and it leaves its mark 💜💜
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Plasticbagwhat’s scary is I truly don’t know if it’s me being crazy and awful…, or if he really is completely self absorbed
Plasticbag · 100+, M
@WaryWitchWandering I know that feeling well. Message me anytime you need to okay. You’re not crazy xx
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
The truth could be anywhere from the extremes you listed to anything in between. At the end of the day, you feel how you feel either way and a loving partner needs to compromise. I'm sorry things aren't easier for you two :/
He is not your father and you are allowed to speak anytime you want.

I believe it is he gaslights you and you are left on your own.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
always willing to lend an ear if it'd help
unsure · 26-30, M
only you will ever know the true answer to your question.

sorry he treats you like this.
Miram · 31-35, F
Take care of yourself 🤍
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I understand this so well. It’s not you being crazy, please just know that. I can discern that it’s not me, it’s him. Of course I see a therapist so that helps but it’s not you. Please, please believe that.

 
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