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Can you be in a relationship and not have sex? I can, I was in a relationship with my first boyfriend and never had sex, maybe I was overthinking but

He and I never had sex but he seemed shady from the jump and left me for someone else anyways. Or I just naturally have trust issues or I'm borderline asexual 😬
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Of course you can be in a relationship and not have sex. There still are people who do that as teenagers, or as adults who believe in waiting for marriage.
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@Stereoguy yes absolutely.
And there are lots of older married couples who don't have sex because they no longer feel a desire for it and are content.
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I think intimacy is an important part of the relationship...otherwise it becomes just like any other friendship or whatever. But of course it depends on the couple and what they want.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@SW-User Very good point. Depends on the couple
Yes I had a boyfriend I never had sex with. We dated 6 months I just wasn't physically attracted to him but liked him as a person. Eventually decided it was unfair to him and broke it off. Only time I didn't though
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I wonder what that would be like. I've been thinking for years I'd be satisfied with an asexual person but something tells me having someone physically around me might totally change my view on it.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@witchthatwantsfun] was he not bothered or was he denied it then your former boyfriend
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@smiler2012 I believe he was bothered but didn't want to bring it up so he just left me for someone else ☹️ if he really loved me he wouldn't need sex from me my kisses and cuddles were enough🫤
bhatjc · 46-50, M
What you do is your business. Some people can have a relationship with out sex.
KyleRenn · 36-40, M
Oh yeah that's totally valid. Sorry he was shady toward you though. 😞
SW-User
I can but ofc feels totally incomplete
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
I would feel rejected and terrible
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Of course. It’s called friendship
Winston335 · 56-60, M
I need it … just being honest 😊
SW-User
Yes, one can. Not everyone follows the same path.
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I have not had sex in years but I am happy
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
I just have friends with a few women and just that.
Bang5luts · M
No. I can't

 
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