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People in long distance relationships

How do you handle lulls in the relationship? Do you just accept that things are slowly fading away? Or just endure it and hope things pick up again?
Usually, that's when my man wants me to put more effort in and talk to him more... he is quite good at openly telling me what he needs, too - so I just step up to the plate and do whatever he needs me to do.

Open communication is important in any relationship. If they can't communicate what they need from a distance, then they won't be much better at it in person, either.
It’s been almost 2 years and there’s never been a lull. Granted, he’s only ever lived a max of 3 hours away from me…

I guess you’re just going to have to admit to your dissatisfaction or ask if the other is. Then go from there. Facing problems head on has always worked for me.
SW-User
I'd let things flow naturally. If they are dying, well there's no much point really. Why forcing something that is diying.

There's no warranty either way, long distance or not.

I don't believe much in relationships generally speaking. I'd like to prove I'm wrong but yeah that's what I think *just see so many people splitting *

But must be nice to make plans to know each other after just being in the distance.
To share those special times.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
A lull means one or both of you aren’t communicating your needs properly.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
I personally couldn't handle ldrs. It's easy to fizzle out even if the person is great.
SW-User
Relationships take effort
If it's worth it you will make an effort
If it isn't you won't
Allelse · 36-40, M
Get a mistress, it's the only way to handle the loneliness.

 
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