Do Swingers Have The Most Successful Marriage

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Do Swingers Have The Most Successful Marriage

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jackjjackson · 61-69, M

What if one or both of them found they liked sex with virtually everyone more than with their spouse?

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Kirin4OTK · 70-79, M

It's a two-edged sword. It can make a good marriage even stronger, but it can shatter one that is struggling to begin with.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

The truth is very few couples have a strong enough self confidence or relationship to continue this lifestyle long term.

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

@allygator18 Your so welcome. But would you ever be a swinger or just happy that you are loved?

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

@allygator18 true to that. But I could never see you being really tied down. your a wild one

Spotpot · 41-45, M

Swingers are sick.

SW-User

@Spotpot Right, from all the STDs @empanadas already established that.

empanadas · 31-35, M

Naw but they got the most STDs though

Wiseacre · F

No, they got mental issues..

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

You married JO?

SW-User

They probably get more miles out of their happy places than average.

Cassandra900 · 31-35, F

If they do John Olinger!

Wiseacre · F

No way...

WhisperingAngel · F

Those that i know don't.

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

No not always as most stop swinging as they get older .

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Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@jackjjackson There isnt a limit it depends on the couples willing to play

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Much of it going on at nursing homes? @Rhode57

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

@jackjjackson Lol you never know .

FarahLover69 · 31-35, F

Depends on the agreements they make.
But at one point or another someone will get jealous. But all the joy to the ones that enjoy it.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@FarahLover69 Agreed. Just ride that wave.

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Brilliant analysis! @FarahLover69

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

Maybe who knows

BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F

As far as swinger, and swinging, what about STD's?

SW-User

@BeautifulLibra That, jealousy [be it yours, theirs or that of any third parties], not wanting to advertise it around your offspring [not wanting to put them in an awkward, embarrassing or traumatic situation] and keep both those worlds very separate - shit...even [i]logistics[/i].

The swinging lifestyle doesn't seem like it would be straightforward at all.

Bananaxx · 31-35

So what do you think of Caitlyn Jenner and would you do her?

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

@Bananaxx she's cool & Hell Yes

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ClaireHeaded · 36-40, F

Swinging has nothing to do with making a marriage successful. It's actually the other way around. You need a strong marriage to make the whole swinging experience; or any variation of an open relationship, work for everyone. Otherwise it's just a recipe for disaster.

NangiUniverse · 31-35, M

Oh yes

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Old fashioned cheating is far superior and much classier

Coisty · 51-55, M

Too much drama.

Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

Depends on the couple. Polyamory works for some but it’s not for everyone.

SW-User

@Quetzalcoatlus it rarely works for all participants

Stillwaiting · M

I got enough on my plate with one woman, good lord why would I go and ask for more ?? 🙄😉

Ynotjenn · F

The couples I’ve seen that dabble in it haven’t been successful. One couple - the wife was constantly pushing the boundaries which turned her husband into a crazy person. Another couple - the girl was just trying to be the “cool wife” but wasn’t really into it and she felt like she wasn’t enough for him - leading to their split.

Just seems like too much damn drama for me. While the idea is intriguing, I’d rather just mess around with my person and have fun with that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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SW-User

@Ynotjenn Agreed! Even I like to be sociable now and then. It is nice to have a laugh with some people and just enjoy some good company. It is a good feeling, but everything definitely requires a certain amount of energy...emotional cost of living. Enjoy the Red Bull. ✌️

EDIT: Referring purely to socialising.

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

@Ynotjenn So what do you think of enjoythestruggle & Would You Do Him

jim2439 · 61-69, M

@Ynotjenn its much safer

ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M

That is one option I haven't tried so I can't tell you.

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

I hope this gets more Answers

Highskirt · 56-60, M

I've never swung but I have shared my wife and yes we feel closer because of it

SW-User

Mine ended in divorce

SW-User

What do you think of swingers and would you do them?

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

@SW-User Their Awesome & Hell Yes I would

SW-User

@JohnOinger 👍 The ones are actual swingers anyway and not just pent up jealous dysfunctional ones lol trolol

SW-User

It depends. Some are close or remain close. but there is a common belief / maybe knowledge that the possibility of falling in love with other people increases due to high turnover of sexual partners / odds of equal or greater chemistry.