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@ScrewYou I think you do like him .
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
ScrewYou · 26-30, F
@iamonfire696 yes you’re very spot on; and that is very true.
Eidolon · M
Honestly? I think that if you remotely have an attraction to him, you should explore it.
Because he is a friend, you would always be so comfortable with your friendship with him, that you would hesitate to explore more with him. Ultimately you'd eventually just be suffocating yourself, and years later live with regrets of not knowing what could have been.
It's rather you just be transparent with him, even if it means telling him about the confusion. This way the truth is out there and the ball will be in his court to consider whether the feelings are mutual, or whether he is just going to brush it off as you being a goofball friend.... but at least you would not have to live with the indecision.
Because he is a friend, you would always be so comfortable with your friendship with him, that you would hesitate to explore more with him. Ultimately you'd eventually just be suffocating yourself, and years later live with regrets of not knowing what could have been.
It's rather you just be transparent with him, even if it means telling him about the confusion. This way the truth is out there and the ball will be in his court to consider whether the feelings are mutual, or whether he is just going to brush it off as you being a goofball friend.... but at least you would not have to live with the indecision.
ScrewYou · 26-30, F
@Eidolon I have let him know, he’s aware I’m hella confused right now and he seems pretty confident in himself because he’s just chilled and doesn’t make me feel rushed about needing to know the answer to anything right now. It’s just all in my head and everytime I hangout with him now I’m kinda suffering because I just don’t wanna hurt him and I kinda see and know it’s coming…
Eidolon · M
@ScrewYou a million heartbreaks are still worth just 1 moment of true sincere love. Never hold back regardless of the destination being doomed. Most often the journey is immortalised more than the destination. Just continue being completely honest with him, and above all - with yourself.
Based on your feelings at the moment, it seems to be not quite love yet....but possibly developing into love. You'd be surprised how love can come unexpectedly and through situations you never would have suspected.
I would suggest you give it time.More importantly, try to see if the feeling is mutual, you may get hurt if he does not reciprocate the feeling. For all you know, it's because you're feeling vulnerable right now after your break up and your heart is needing love that you focus on him...when it all may just be real love for a friend.Good luck !😊
I would suggest you give it time.More importantly, try to see if the feeling is mutual, you may get hurt if he does not reciprocate the feeling. For all you know, it's because you're feeling vulnerable right now after your break up and your heart is needing love that you focus on him...when it all may just be real love for a friend.Good luck !😊
@ScrewYou Awwwwww...you're welcome!( Hugging you🤗 ) It's gonna be okay, you'll see ☺️
ExtremeNext · 31-35
