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Social media…is it all the same?

I have felt the need to express myself of late but I had forgotten where I could do this. I haven’t used very much social media for the last couple of years. I thought I’d just open up some old accounts and see what was going on and where it takes me(kind of exciting stuff).

Please understand I’m married and I’m not looking for any inappropriateness, just good conversation, laughter and to be a bit daft. (I say this to anyone I talk to and that applies here too.

First stop Facebook.

I’m always talking to people I’ve got a lot of interest, so bright eyed and bushy tailed I log in.

That sparking glow in me twinkles is soon being suffocated by what I discover. It’s very sad but true, I discover that literally everyone that contacted me and spoke to me were trolls or wanting money from me because I was a winner and I just needed to subscribe to them for just $5 registration(what a crock).

It is shameful how many of them are pretending to be in the US Military.
When you are on ops are you really not allowed social media and do you really have to go to Google chat?
I’m not going to entertain telling you how one general tried talking to me!!
If anyone can confirm or put my suspicions to rest please let me know, I’m truly interested as I don’t want to give anyone a bad wrap.

If they are genuine I am more than happy to talk and laugh with them as I know not everyone has someone. Sometimes it’s just the hours they are not on duty and just want some normality (I’m not saying I’m normal by any standards) and conversation. Being in the UK 🇬🇧 I’m 5-7hours in front of you guys in the USA.

When did this happen, how did it happen, and why are they letting it go on?

knew there was trolls out there but I’m really surprised how many are on fb!!

Am I safer back here?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M Best Comment
Hmm, I’d say if you are a female about 90 percent of the men here will interact with you with hopes of seducing you. You might know that, right?
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
I think I need new glasses @StevetheSleeve
I thought you was in your utility room tacking a sneaky pic LMAO

you are such a funny person I can’t help but laugh and reply to you.

Do you not have work to do? Or are you too busy planing how to scale my castle…god I hope that’s not a euphemism I say while blushing 😊
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@Straightbayou I’m happy you tolerate my goofballery. I am coming off a torturous shift of work, so I blame my lack of sleep.
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@StevetheSleeve remind me never to talk to you when you are well rested…you are a lot of fun and have the same sense of humour as me

Lots of scammers on FB. FB doesn't care. Majority of them claim to be in the military. I never talk to them nor do I add any random friends. I block. Here? I have my inner circle from EP and rarely add anyone to my friend list. Here it is mostly catfish who scam for "love" or the thrill of deception. Anyone who scams for money is usually reported as far as I know. And I go way back from EP. On EP, there existed a group of mostly men who enjoyed catfishing women. Just be careful here. Still there are some pretty wonderful, real people. Takes time to find them. You may be surprised how many people you used to know are still here.
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
Thank you @PoetryNEmotion you’re advice is appreciated

I hope the hood out weighs the bad and 🤞🏻I find some good friends on here

I wonder if we enter commented on any of each other’s posts on EP? 🤔
@Straightbayou You are welcome. Take your time here to make real friends. I do not recognize your name. Good luck.
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@PoetryNEmotion I can’t remember my first profile name but changed it was redneckrita and i liked to have a really scary profile picture lol

Not so many trolls lol
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Hopefully you are, I’ve never been asked for money here.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I really like strong cups of tea! And I couldn’t think of a better username at the time. I wish it was a bit cooler but I don’t want to change now!@Straightbayou
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@Strongtea I might have to call you builders tea as that’s what it’s generally known as and it’s way cooler ☕️🫖
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Haha, yes some people say that when they make me a cup! So funny!@Straightbayou
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Ironically, you're safer on here because it's actually less safe, that's because when you know you're not safe you're going to act safe. On facebook you think you're in a safe space, and you let your guard down.
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@MartinTheFirst you are wise beyond your years 🧐
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Straightbayou Why so?
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@MartinTheFirst the first thing you said to me about not expecting trolls and people trying to con you on fb, where as here if you have any sense you are on guard from the moment you log in
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
Sorry I stand corrected , I have 2 females and they are both greatly appreciated
SW-User
Guess it depends on the ‘audience if your posts’ some people can be very fickle and judgemental with closed minds on social media others can be crude and desperate for likes etc it’s finding a happy balance that matters whatever content is posted ~ it doesn’t have to be validated yet writing can help to put things into perspective whatever that may be.
Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@SW-User thank you, you are the first female to respond to me. It’s always good to get a rounded perspective. Sorry guys but I hate when it’s just men that respond.

I’m really just looking to write some of the things I can’t say or shouldn’t feel in my life.

I don’t want to go into private chats with people but will happily banter out here in public.

I guess if people are crude, fickle or needy I’ll respond to them if merited as I do everyone but I’m not here to be drained or feel pressured, I’m here for the freedom it gives me.

Fantastic profile pic by the way.
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Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@Stereoguy is this your RP name?
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Straightbayou · 56-60, F
@Stereoguy sorry I think I must be out of practice checking what I type. Yes EP

 
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