@PrivateHell it is definitely a red flag for me

@UndeadPrivateer Exactly.

It's like they won't live now but continue to talk about how they will live better in the afterlife.

@JaggedLittlePill Yeah, it's really weird to me. Especially when it manifests in incredibly self-destructive or just generally destructive ways. She's burned a lot of bridges with her shit behavior.

@Budwick I don't necessarily mock the concept. I am speaking more about those who use it in manipulative ways and there are many. Narcissistic and sociopathic people who subscribe to such things use it in a way to attempt to absolve themselves from doing something here and now.

"We can't be together now but we will in our afterlife" it's a string of attachment they tack onto the relationship in order to keep control and manipulate the situation to their advantage.

@JaggedLittlePill Manipulative narcissistic sociopath; sounds like you are dealing with people suffering personality disorders. The afterlife issue would be an interesting addition to the mix, but I doubt a cause or anything nefarious.

No, I'm not a psychologist.

@Budwick a cause of anything nefarious? Lol. Ok. 👍️

@summersong me too

@Classified Yes..but this is not to mock that belief. I hope you know this.

@JaggedLittlePill I know. Otherwise I wouldn't have replied. 🙂

@JaggedLittlePill i fear there is something he is not telling you. From what i know, love is unconditional. It does not matter your situation,you go all out. When i professed my love to glitter i was besotted. Which meant i gave my life to her. Love also can become complicated dependent on circumstance. We were only 300 miles away. But i hated it. There wss a yearning of physical affection and things online aren't the same. Ldr are not for the faint

@Gangstress Oh yes there was a lot he was not telling me that ended long ago I was just stuck in my mind yesterday thinking about all my fucked up relationships!

@JaggedLittlePill 🤗🤗

@SweetMae yes indeed!