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Awww 🥰 @Sparklesatnite

@Sparklesatnite I’m seriously not trying to be funny or smarmy, but I really want to be more like you. 😊

@ImpeccablyImperfect thankyou thats very kind

@GJOFJ3 Really ? Me, too ! (left-handed high five) 😃

Awesome ..
My eldest sister is a left hander.

@GJOFJ3

Now that is one thing people should not be judging you on .,,

Everyone has a different journey , childhood to adulthood to relationships and beyond.

Be yourself .. enjoy the journey.
I am old schooled myself

🤗🤗💐💐
@ImpeccablyImperfect

@scorpiolovedeep i think few people are actually themselves.

We are programmed from day one, by social and/or religious standards and second hand damamge .

I mean, i spend most of my time NOT being myself, just so i dont have to deal with rutted thinking.

Ive learnt to just let others think the way they do in RL.
We may be entitled to be ourselves ...but are we conscious enough, and strong enough to be ourselves🤷‍♀️

Agree that we are programmed by others and it is crucial that we listen to ourselves and be stronger.


@OogieBoogie

@scorpiolovedeep i think its a matter of compromise.

The hardest thing ive learnt is: Sometimes you gotta go along, to get along.
I mean, if you're surrounded by robots, ive found its better to act like one, than rock the boat and cause conflict .
Its easier for the perceptive to comply, than it is for the conditioned to step outside their comfort zone.

I try to limit 'being myself ' to when i have the freedom to be it, without upsetting others.
Im just tired of stupid conflict .

I don’t know. It’s something I’ve noticed over my lifetime. The people I’ve known don’t seem to think like I do. It’s hard to give an example, but just ordinary things that others seem to enjoy. As a child, I found the circus and fairground boring and uninteresting, while my friends enjoyed it. Many people enjoy going out to listen to a band. I’d rather go bird watching. I know many women like to go out to a nice restaurant on a date, I’d rather go for a walk by the lake. (Not that I actually date, but if I did) I’m just different. I have a lot of integrity, but I don’t see much around me. I’m honest to the point of stupidity, but I’m working on that. I’m just different in many areas of life. I don’t fit in. @scorpiolovedeep

Thanks for sharing ..

And trust me , you are not stupid.
It is ok to think / feel different to others.


I love walking by the lake too.
And observe nature / bird life.
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@Carissimi

It is okay to be different, but if you don’t fit in, then you end up alone. I’ve made my peace (sort of) with that. I can live better with my authentic self than try to be something I’m not, just to fit in. @scorpiolovedeep

Shift work ??
Just odd timings ??
Please tell ..
@Iwillwait

@scorpiolovedeep my work is not shift work. I work with people, I sleep differently in the sense I'm just weird.

Give me an example @deathfairy