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Have you ever met anyone always kind? I think the majority have ulterior motives.

Do you think they are kind for their own selfish reasons?
PhoenixPhail · M Best Comment
Not [i]always[/i] kind. And [i]everyone[/i] has ulterior motives.

RubySoo · 56-60, F
I hate to see others hurting. I hate unfairness. I try to be kind.
Ive been accused many times of having an agenda. People dont always know how to accept kindness as they are not used to it. It makes them suspicious.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User many many people go through life having not been shown kindness.
Not sure how that implies those that show it have their own agenda though??
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@RubySoo They usually do. I respect your opinion.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User thank you.
I worked with disadvantaged kids for years. I guess that helped me develope a strong sense of fairness and a desire to try my very best to understand other peoples situations and issues.
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
I am kind because I wish happiness for others. I want to show i care and that Im there for you. I am kind because I have been through some awful shit and when I see someone is unhappy, I know what a little kindness can do. I dont want shit, just to see people loving each other.
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I have and it’s unfortunate that the world is so cynical now that we all suspect them of a hidden agenda.🤷🏼‍♀️
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Of course. I thought it was a question @SW-User
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@SW-User ok
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✌️@SW-User
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Less but yes. I personally don't help people to get something in return which and the irony is the people I help are usually the ones who screw me.
@Beatbox34 ^Bingo!^
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
When people are kind to me or tell me how wonderful I am, I have found it's a good idea to be alert and cautious. Often there is an ulterior motive and something bad is coming my way.
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@greenmountaingal I feel that’s true.
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Yes I have she was a friend of mine named smriti ..she was so kind .and yeah I also thought that it was dumb of her ..but now we are separated ..and once I spoke to her and she was no more very kind and doting ...which should be fair cause people treated her badly for her kindness ...including me ..but I wish she become her kind self
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
There is such a thing as a genuinely nice person who doesn’t have manipulative ulterior motives if everyone was as suspicious of peoples motives as you seem to be the world wouldn’t have any love or happiness whatsoever
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@QuietEd2019 Thank you for your “kindness”. It was just what I needed.
Good question. While many people may [i]say [/i]that they have the best interest of others in mind, what I have observed people actually [i]do [/i]is act in their own self interest. In other words, what benefits [i]them[/i].
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Baby youre beautiful show me those tiddies kindly 😍
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Fucking LOL @MartinTheFirst
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@geoam1 Have many have you known?
joesand99 · 41-45, M
I am kind to everyone. Just my nature.
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@geoam1 All in perception.
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