Any men here with experience being overweight and it affecting your sex life?

Or, ladies, anyone had experience dealing with someone overweight im the bedroom? Did it affect his ability to be in different positions?

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zonavar68 · 51-55, M

I'm happy to admit that I don't have good positivity about my body and I think that goes a long way to nullifying my sex life.

I'm 83 kg which isn't huge but I don't have a huge skeletal frame. I also don't have a huge penis, and because of the combination of things I find sex 'confronting'. Especially rear which I simply cannot do.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@zonavar68 especially rear? You mean butt sex or from the back?

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@perceptivei from the back - not butt sex.

Markmywurdz · 56-60, M

Sounds a lot like me, except I’m close to 120kg @zonavar68

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

Addendum to my previous comment. I'm a bit overweight because of the type of work I do and how difficult it is to eat well, exercise etc.

I'm 100 percent sure that if I had a romantic partner it would impact my sexual 'performance' but I'm really shy/ashamed about anything related to sex and intimacy so it probably isn't an issue I'd need to address.

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

overweight but non existant sex life as I live alone

TexChik · F

Absolutely, physical fitness is paramount for quality sex. Not only does it feel better to feel fit, but you look better to your partner and are able to perform better.