There is something especially intense about sex in wartime.

[b]There is a third energy present making up a threesome, and that energy is death.[/b]

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gdon39 · 41-45, M

Interesting point of view. The few times I experienced sex in war theater was the opposite

Yulianna · 22-25, F

@gdon39 interesting, thank you. for sure, life is there in a very intense way, too, but i expect life to be intense in sex. death is the uninvited guest.

gdon39 · 41-45, M

@Yulianna I was not in my country and really was wanting it to be the break from reality I wanted but it wasn’t.

Scared of what might happen to the girl kept me from doing it other than twice and once with a soldier (female) from my unit and that was even worse.

Yulianna · 22-25, F

@gdon39 i am sorry, they sound like very negative experiences... but i wonder if the power/guilt dilemma of male sexuality wormed its way into your relationships.

this dilemma is much rarer in lesbian relationships, but not altogether unknown.

gdon39 · 41-45, M

@Yulianna with my fellow soldier it was a court martial offense for me as I was an officer and she was unlisted. It was hot for the weeks we teased each other.

Sex with the two women in country was a mistake.