Why do we bother with orgasms? What do they do for you?

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Why do we bother with orgasms?

What do they do for you?

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HootyTheNightOwl

You're a little old to be learning about where babies come from...

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HootyTheNightOwl

@butterflybaby75 You don't specify a gender in your post.

No... you are correct, female orgasms have no part in reproduction and guys love getting in on the action while you are as dry as a piece of sandpaper.

They also hate the fact that female orgasm opens up the cervix so that his swimmers can get in more easily.

Down with all orgasms!!! 🚫🚫🚫

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HootyTheNightOwl

@OldMan70 I'm merely siding with the nonsense she's spouting.

If I wanted to educate anyone on sex, I would go sign up to become a sex ed teacher and make sure that I get paid for my time.

I doubt that her inquiry is even genuine anyway... just about the only people who may think this way is the Amish.

JustAmber · 36-40, F

Because they are fan fucking tastic!!!

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@JustAmber How do you gain that understanding? What makes the 'link' between the physical aspects of sexual arousal and the psychological aspects? Is it possible that if your body doesn't make 'cuddle drug' hormones, etc. that sex and orgasms don't produce positive euphoria?

JustAmber · 36-40, F

@zonavar68 I'm sure its possible, but I would argue you have general dopamine issue and this would extend to many other things.

butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F

@JustAmber I'm not a nympho but I guess women have the same thing - some women can't get enough sex and some don't want any and most are somewhere in between.

Ravens80 · 46-50, F

You have to ask 🤦🏻‍♀️

lumberjackslam · 41-45, M

why do orgasms bother with us? there are so many more deserving entities

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

I'm a guy and I don't find them non-enjoyable nearly all of the time. I've had no sex with another person for 6 yrs. I've never been able to understand how once I cum, all of a sudden I feel like collapsing, have no stamina/energy for up to 24 hrs, and my penis shrinks so fast that I feel very embarassed. I'm average length (nearly 6 inch) and quite thick but after climax it turns into a pea. That's demoralising. I have *never* been able to 'recover' for another go in under half a day (at best) and that means I can't perform/satisfy a woman who wants to go again straight away and can orgasm multiple times in 'relatively' quick succession. It turns me off dating since I know once it gets to sex I have nothing to offer.

NCCindy · 36-40, F

Cause the feel so good

bijouxbroussard · F

They’re pleasant, and no bother.

PeterJ · 51-55, M

If you have to ask, your having fun wrong

butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F

@PeterJ Orgasms for us women serve no purpose.

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PeterJ · 51-55, M

@butterflybaby75 pleasure is a purpose is it not

caesar7 · 61-69, M

Why do we bother???? It's the best feeling in the world!!!!!! There are so many benefits but for me, it's the relaxation effect afterward. It might be temporary but that moment is precious to me in this crazy world.

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butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F

@OldMan70 But sometimes we don't feel like flying... ;-)

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PSuss1 · 51-55, M

They stop me thinking about sex 24/7!

Pretzel · 61-69, M

they are a lot of work

and a good sneeze is almost as satisfying

and you can do it in public/mixed company without having to register with the cops

SunshineGirl · 36-40, F

@Pretzel Actually post-covid masturbating in public may actually be marginally less antisocial than sneezing 😉

Pretzel · 61-69, M

@SunshineGirl you raise an extremely valid point

SunshineGirl · 36-40, F

They provide inducement and reward for the essential but otherwise rather tacky business of reproduction 😔

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WonderGirl1

My first orgasm was from a vibrator. I masturbated before but never had an orgasm it just felt good. Once I had an orgasm I became obsessed. I masturbated all the time.