I Need A Punishment Haircut

I just want someone to make me keep my hair ugly for a set length of time. I want it to be like role play in that the other person acts like a parent figure over me, decides what I did, and makes me keep my hair ruined until my sentence is up.

One possibility is to shave my hair like the Benjamin button in front and as many random patches everywhere else as possible.

Alternately, I need to be made to keep my hair wrapped in stalks of duct tape with tape balls attached to them.

What I need most is for someone to make me keep either way done the whole time (like a whole year). I mean, I live alone and would be tempted to let patches grow back, or I'd find a way to remove duct tape from my hair. So it is difficult for me to get the full effect of the punishment alone. I'd love to be excluded from stores and other places unless my hair is ruined and I have ugly makeup (or other markings or attachments on my face) on. I'd love to have a regular crowd to rib me and humiliate me until my hair punishment sentence is up. But I don't have access to that.

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PurpleGirl · 51-55, F

Just speaking in general, and not addressed to anyone in specific, I posted here looking for a judgment-free atmosphere. I don't find little hints that people who want such things must have trouble with things like loving or accepting oneself to be helpful or positive.

In other forums, people often make subtle digs and accusations that those who want such do not love or accept themselves. Deep down, they tend to mean it as a passive-aggressive way to manipulate, control or criticize, all because they don't agree with what others seek in life. I find too many folks have difficulty seeing themselves as separate beings from others and distinct/unique.

Everyone should have the right to decide what they want in their lives with absolutely no obstacles from others, negative criticisms, accusations of not loving themselves (or being godless, etc.), or any comment that implies any weakness or fault.

Making comments that a person who has specific appearance goals or fetishes needs to love themselves, accept themselves, forgive themselves, etc., is just part of the bigotry and war on individuality that society needs to root out.

Mamapolo2016 · F

Just post a post-ruinous selfie here. You’ll receive all the humiliation your heart desires.

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PurpleGirl · 51-55, F

@Mamapolo2016 Yeah, apparently. I need adventure in my life. And this could be a bonding exercise as someone checks on me daily for a while to make sure this "punishment" is done.

Anyway, thank you for the time you've spent with me.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@PurpleGirl I don’t have any urge to change you. I don’t come here to be judged by someone who thinks I’m judging them because I did not understand. If you don’t like being judged, then don’t do it.

I said we had different definitions of fun, not that yours was somehow deficient in sanity.

PurpleGirl · 51-55, F

Well, I was speaking in general and wasn't accusing or implying anything.

None of what I said was directed at you. Just take what applies and leave the rest for others to decide is relevant for them or not.

Please remember that I did say that I appreciated the time we shared.