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Im into bdsm im a sub and finding it hard to find a dom any help

hey so I struggle with finding a dom who cares and wants to know everything I want this person to be caring and understanding as I have struggled with eating and s/h in the past and kind of still do, just not as much
I'm 24 I like going out doing art and subspace hahaha

anyone gives me any advice on how to find a dom?

looking for male or female
TexChik · F
You need to make yourself desirable. Lose the bad habits, improve your fitness level, and be as good a person as you can be. People will find you.
Lasbutterfly143 · 22-25, F
@TexChik back up..... change myself for someone else?
how the hell do u know how fit I am? u don't I don't eat enough not the other way round
and if u had any idea about PTSD or s/h you would understand it's not that easy
TexChik · F
@Lasbutterfly143 If you are anorexic, you are not being healthy. I have ptsd...I know the struggles. My worst issue is controlling the rage. I do have to force myself to eat stuff to keep my weight up or I get gaunt fairly quickly because I have to work out all the time as part of controlling the rage thing. I had lots of help from doctors growing up , and my husband and friends now especially when my issues become active. I did not mean to offend you , but you are asking help to find a dom. If your ptsd is not in check or if you are getting too thin, that is not going to be attractive for someone else to deal with and you only set yourself up for disappointment and another round of ptsd hell. Get right with you and your body first then look for others. Its really the only way you are going to find a quality man that you are looking for.
OhIsMe · 36-40, M
Probably better to find a person you love and who loves you, then explain to them that they're going to be your dom.
Probably speciality places like sub reddit, deticated forums or fet life is actually not bad either.
I see you're looking for a female, so that cuts your search by half...
Lasbutterfly143 · 22-25, F
@Majorlatency where does it say that
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SW-User
Find someone you like and can communicate with ... before submitting to him or her.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Looking for a female one?
Lasbutterfly143 · 22-25, F
@MrBrownstone mail or femail
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@Lasbutterfly143 femdommesociety.com
There's no dom's here... lots of fakes and flakes.
@Lasbutterfly143 in your post of March 13th 2021..
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Lasbutterfly143 · 22-25, F
@Majorlatency but now im bi

 
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