How can I fight the urge to have an affair?

Send one to your wife instead?

I'll sort it out for ya!

That’s so weird because I was just about to send your wife a picture of my vagina

That's not an affair..thats you sending a dick pick to a poor unsuspecting woman who probably doesn't want to see a random dick in her inbox 😏

How about just tell your wife you're not happy with monogamy anymore? She might get mad but she'll get over it one way or another. If she leaves you as a result, her loss. Then you can go pound all the pussy you want. ❤️

If that’s your approach to starting an affair you have nothing to worry about, it will forever be your fantasy

Some of these replies are quite mean.

I find it interesting some of the assumptions people make, like

1) the assumption that I would send an unsolicited Dick pic. That I would just randomly send people pictures on my dick that they haven’t agreed to. Some people do that, I get it, I don’t. It’s not my thing. I’m all about consent thanks. Notice that not one person who has replied has mentioned me sending them personally an unsolicited dic pic. Because it’s not something I do.

2) that NO women like pictures of someone’s penis. Just because you are not interested in pictures of a penis does not mean no-one is, it’s not good to make generalisations, even if you happen to belong to the demographic in question. You do not speak for all women. It may shock you to find out but there are women (yes real women not catfish) who enjoy seeing a man’s penis. I’m sorry if that does not fit in with your world view.

3) That sending a picture of your penis to a man is somehow inherently wrong or bad, regardless of whether or not he lives in a basement. That one is to recoil and be upset if a person they have sent a picture of their penis to turns out to be (gasp) a man! How disgusting!

4) that this desire somehow makes me or anyone else a “bad person” that my experience is somehow not valid. That I’m not welcome to share this feeling or urge because I/it is wrong and I should be ashamed. No I’m just human.

5) That I am wrong, within the confines of my marriage, to have this feeling. Without any thought made to the circumstances of my marriage or my life, the assumption is just immediately that I am a bad husband. Just because someone WANTS to have an affair does not make them a bad husband or wife. Lots of people want to have affairs.

Thank you to all the people who answered with real answers. Some of you were very helpful.

Get over yourself. No one wants to see your junk.

How to fight the urge to send?
Look at your junk and ask yourself if YOU will be happy to receive a picture of it. 😆

Remind yourself that if your wife finds out, she will cut an inch of your dick for every pic you'd sent

just send the picture to every woman on here. i'm sure they could use a good laugh.

Just a side note...mostly we don't really want a picture of the junk...just saying

Don't do it. It's not an affair, it's gross and it's harassment.

But women aren’t interested in seeing it

Think about other guys randomly sending their junk to your wife and how you'd feel about that....

If you have no issue with that, that may e it's time to go to marriage counseling, or consider opening/ending the relationship.

If you do have an issue with that, then that's why you shouldn't do it....

Do your wife a favor and divorce her.

I hope to be in a marriage like yours one day

Tell your wife what you are thinking. That might help fight the urge. Honesty and transparency always solves the problem of hidden thoughts.

just imagine whomever you send that to is a fat dude catfish in some basement somewhere.
Go ahead and send that picture to the catfish

Think about weird puss, blisters, itching etc coming out of nowhere after your affair and then your wife coming down with it too.

Oh... great... just what I always wanted - a picture of some random dude's junk - said no woman ever in the history of the world.

@CookieCrumbs what if the answer is yes, does he send it anyway?? Lol

What would you think if she did that to you? 😡

The random woman could turn out to be a random man 😬

You mean a random guy?

I can send you the pictures off all of the random penii I get instead

You could just...not?

It doesn’t go away…might as well cheat now.