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I want your advice on this one.

A friend promised to text me last Friday to talk about stuff that mostly concerns me. I rarely ask to talk about me. Most of the time we talk about his stuff.
On Friday, no message. On Saturday no message. I opened our chat on WhatsApp on Saturday around 3pm just to see if maybe I misread what he promised. I could see he was online, on and off many times.
I waited 30min, nothing.
I sent him a message saying "dude, the least you could do is message me that you're busy."
He said he was sorry, he had a busy Friday and the Saturday too. I let know how I felt how about the situation, specially that I usually don't make this kind of request. He apologized again for being selfish. He blamed it on the new job and family issues.

The things is he was online and never thought of sending a message to excuse himself for almost 2days??? I couldn't believe it! I see it as a huge disrespect.
It's kind of a hard pill to swallow.
I'm thinking of cutting him off.
What do you guys think.
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LeaDhelani · 22-25, F
Don't contact him again and when he does contact you don't answer straight away ( few days) and see if he calls again . It sounds like you’re just not a priority to him and yes a hard pill to swallow..He broke his word so he is not trustworthy and doesn't respect you enough as you said to even send a simple I am sorry I am really busy text. He can't be trusted.
eMortal · M
@LeaDhelani it's that disrespect that's not easy to ignore.
LeaDhelani · 22-25, F
@eMortal Yes but that's on him. You don't have to carry his bs. He did wrong and the best way will be to protect yourself and make sure it doesn't happen again. You can't control what he does but you can control what you do
eMortal · M
@LeaDhelani True.