How long did it take YOU to get over an ex?

What did it take to finally get over your ex? How did you get over your ex knowing that they are fine and already over you? It's been three months. Almost four. I know he is over me, he got through his emotions and sadness very easily. But I hold on to things. I still love him so much. How did you get over your ex? Or how long did it take you? We have had no contact basically since the beginning of our break-up.

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

For the instigator it's a flip of the switch, but for the victim it's a long hard road. It tool about 4 months before life started to settle out.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@Quimliqer idk about that. I broke it off but only because I reached the end of my tether. I'm certainly not finding it easy.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@KuroNeko Understood. I was only looking from oneside.