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rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Please don't be ashamed. Manipulating is what they do best. It can happen to the best of us.
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
I honestly believed it would not happen to me. I thought i was smart enough to see through it and I thought i knew people but I was wrong about myself .@rottenrobi
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
@CheerfullyCurious Me too. I never thought I did spend 16 years with an alcoholic narcissist, with the mindset that he might change.
I mean, wtf? I thought I knew better too.
Honestly, you see it now and that's all that counts. Don't beat yourself up, please keep moving forward and never look back.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
I would not blame yourself. Psychopaths are experts at fooling the world around them.
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
Yup . And twisting it all back to make you look like the ass. @Quizzical
SW-User
Don't blame yourself. My sister got into a 7 year relationship with one, and he fooled her and everyone including me. You eventually saw through it and got away, many don't.
SW-User
Delete those messages and phone calls. Close this chapter once for all, so not to look back. You have learn your lesson and be careful.
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
@SW-User thanks for the suggestion but no ways . I am not deleting it . He ruined my life as well as my daughter’s life , made me loss a child and messed up some other people’s life. I am telling the story and am making that all public. After that ... then I will . Some will Call me a bitch but let me tell you i dont delete this kind of evidence. We are not talking about a normal relationship gone bad here. We are talking about abuse, gaslighting, manipulation. I want to help other people .

 
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