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This is how a narcissist is in the work folks [I Know A Narcissist]

Apparently talking to a co-worker is equivalent to cheating 😉. Dang where did I miss these life lessons.
SW-User
Not a narcissist.
But paranoid and possessive whoever that is. Too insecure.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User You have no idea how she's capable of manipulating.

This was just the gist.
SW-User
@Beatbox34 okay.
SW-User
I realize you're upset with it all. I just don't think private messages should be shared with everyone.
I say... let it go. I don't believe this is doing you any good.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I will take this down. It's just infuriating when I'm always a culprit without doing anything. Now figuratively if speaking to women is cheating then one shouldn't even talk to women at work even if it's work related.
SW-User
@Beatbox34 Thank you for taking that down.
I have a hard time with seeing personal messages between people who know each other posted on public forums. It just has a "wrong" feel to it and know I'd have some real trust issues with someone doing that to me.
You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. Just post how it went in your own words and leave names and actual texts out of it. :)
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I wouldn't have posted it if had names on it. But my point is that there's a thin line where a person can frame you. Tbh I would've taken it down before you asked it. I just am not comfortable with taking every fault in humanity for her satisfaction.
Fairydust · F
I would just block them, you can’t reason with a narcissist or get anywhere, they always have to be right. 😏
Fairydust · F
@Beatbox34 I have a degree in narcissism haha 😆

Jokes but did a lot of research into it. Having had one in my life. 🤗
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Fairydust I genuinely understand that.

It sucks and I really hope the best for you too. If you ever need a person to talk to, I'll be there(if needed). You deserve better. We all do.
Fairydust · F
@Beatbox34 thanks, just be careful it never happens again...

you too 😌
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Well….considering my husband works with about 500 women a night I just know he’s getting laid every 5 minutes then. This person is clearly crazy.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Keepitsimple I know she is. What I don't understand is the justification she provides.
Miram · 31-35, F
why do you still talk to them?
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Miram I have never been married in my life. She's just an ex and I still don't know why she's contacting me. I have explicitly stated it to her multiple times that I don't want to talk to her. I have been harsh and rude but regardless of anything she'll "apologise".

The worst part is this. She'll force me out through her dirty ways. She'll call me if I didn't read her texts or find me on facebook and flush me out.
Miram · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 You might want to keep a record of your interactions with her because this is disturbing. If a man did this to me, most likely I'd take legal action. And I have.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Miram I've kept a record and I hope the last interaction I had was yesterday. I blocked her everywhere as well.

I don't need that lunatic anymore and leaving her unblocked would hinder with my sanity.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Awesome work drama
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@ImRileyTheDog Yeah this went on for 3 fucking years. It was hell for me.

 
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