You may have to work on your ppl skills if you want to keep her. If not, she needs to find someone who has what she is looking for.

Not directly but I was told: "Sometimes people want to hear everything will be alright instead of an honest input."

I was accused of lacking empathy from a ex. but this person had BPD and it did make me laugh at the sheer lack of self awareness from this person. 🤣

I suck at offering support when it comes to grieving a death. Aside from listening I never know what to say.

I may be as sweet to you as chloroform .

Yes!

No. I just don't know what to do sometimes.