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Is it healthy to still keep pictures of your ex ?

He was my fiance 11 years ago. Every time i delete it i restore it. No, i don't love him anymore. But i wish him well despite the infidelity.

Not sure if i should delete all pics

Don't do anything if you are uncertain. If you get tired of looking at them then put them away but don't throw them away until your absolutely positive you don't want them. They're not hurting a thing, neither here nor there but I think if you do something on impulse then I think you might be sad.
I wouldn't delete them necessarily - even though you are not together anymore it is still part of the story of your life which is what photos capture.
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@SW-User Yes. Do exactly as you wish to do. Not what you think others think you should do.
Flowchart · 56-60, M
I don't have pictures of my most recent ex because my wife felt threatened, which I understood. But I have photos of other exes and they mostly make me smile and recall good things about my life, with no desire to go back there. If they make you happy, perhaps keep them; if they upset you, perhaps delete, or move them from your phone or computer to a portable hard drive and stash them in a desk drawer.
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No idea about health but I have no pictures of exes in my vicinity. 😂
Tres13 · 51-55, M
delete all
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Tres13 · 51-55, M
@SW-User Be brave
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ABCDEF7 · M
Answer yourself, do you really want to move ahead with a new life or want to keep yourself hooked to the past.
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User That's very good if his pics don't make you think about him.
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SW-User
That's typical of leos.

I truly enjoy having their pics but I don't look at them. It's weird
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SW-User
I don’t think it’s wrong to keep his picture unless your new boyfriend saw it and got upset.
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Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
It's a memory of a time in your life. How does it make you feel? Or is it a What If or If Only?
Speakyourmind · 26-30, M
Looks like an Indian
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MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Sadly I had to delete mine because we were underage back then, but no it cant be healthy so its probably a good thing
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@LeopoldBloom All governments in this world are complete lunacy. It's a miracle we have what we have.
@MartinTheFirst If you think "all governments are complete lunacy," that says more about human nature than about governments. While some government policies are crazy, not all of them are.
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