GoFish ·
one sided love is no fun besides anyone can "love" someone who doesn't care for them.. 😒 making someone love you who doesn't care for you is not cool either
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@GoFish Romantic wise, yeah, that sucks.
But on the matter of reciprocity, someone opened my eyes to something. Like, just because we don't feel loved by someone doesn't mean they don't love us. Just that maybe we have expectations that they couldn't keep up with because for some reason, they can't.
To be real, it's a hard concept to grasp for someone like myself who learned to overcome my own barriers to go beyond for things I find worthy. But...in a way, in way, I guess the thought of that ends up like comfort.
Like that person loves. Just that...it didn't feel like it to me at some points.
But on the matter of reciprocity, someone opened my eyes to something. Like, just because we don't feel loved by someone doesn't mean they don't love us. Just that maybe we have expectations that they couldn't keep up with because for some reason, they can't.
To be real, it's a hard concept to grasp for someone like myself who learned to overcome my own barriers to go beyond for things I find worthy. But...in a way, in way, I guess the thought of that ends up like comfort.
Like that person loves. Just that...it didn't feel like it to me at some points.
Lostlostlost · 56-60, M
Definitely loved
anoderod55 · 70-79, M
Just be nice to know if she appreciated me again ✨
To be loved. I overflow with the other in abundance. The latter would be a lovely change of pace. 😊
Bleak · 36-40, F
To love.
Because being loved is a blessing, but loving someone deeply changes who you are. It teaches patience, sacrifice, loyalty, vulnerability, and the rare ability to care beyond your own ego. Even if love is not always returned equally, the capacity to love sincerely is one of the purest things a person can carry through life.
Because being loved is a blessing, but loving someone deeply changes who you are. It teaches patience, sacrifice, loyalty, vulnerability, and the rare ability to care beyond your own ego. Even if love is not always returned equally, the capacity to love sincerely is one of the purest things a person can carry through life.
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Nick1 · 61-69, M
To love….because that is my nature.
To be loved….that depends on other person.
To be loved….that depends on other person.
Ferric67 · M
Interesting question
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I would love from a distance.
I wouldn't want to be in love with somebody who wasn't in love with me and it would be too painful to stay in a relationship we're only one person loved.
I wouldn't want to be in love with somebody who wasn't in love with me and it would be too painful to stay in a relationship we're only one person loved.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Being loved is easier to live with. Loving someone is hell.
BillyMack · 46-50, M
If it’s not reciprocated, not sure one is better














