I don't think most are even looking for love

With time and experience with people i have realised that even if you express intensely, even if you are a committed honest and a loyal person who will never betray them, even if you give them a lot of care and love, THEY DON'T WANT THAT.

Most people are looking for convenience.
They are looking to be in their comfort zone.
They want to adjust the relationship that way
They want to mould the other person in a way that seems normal for them.
They are scared of your real self only because you feel intensely about them.
That there should be a remote control so that we just say the right things they want to hear or they are ready for.
That you can't just express how you feel
That you have to express to the extent that they feel it's normal to be accepted.
Too much love scares them
Because instead of appreciating that love they feel scared to be with you
They are scared to hurt you
They are scared to be NOT ENOUGH
But no one here was expecting perfection.
That perfection is an illusion.
That we all make mistakes
That we all hurt each other
That we have to fight for the relationship
That we have to nurture the relationship
That we have to accept people for how they are
They are not looking for love
They are looking for their clone.