I'm always a bit confused with love languages, or more specifically when someone says this or that one is my love language. I want them all, well except the gift thing, that doesn't matter to me, but if you say this one is mine, does that mean the others don't matter?

Hmmmm....
This post contradicts with your screen name..

Lol

words of affirmation plus the action from him. For example 'I am whole and I am satisfied' followed by his touch and kiss 💕

Listening is one of the most important part of any loving relationship. Both must listen when spoken to...💋