How can I look at love as less intimidating?

I know many do feel the way I do. I feel love is "too good" almost...like its not for me. Its intimidating, I feel in some way I dont deserve it. That I don't Deserve attention, true affection, love. I look away when guys look at me. I dont WANT to do that. But I feel Im not enough. How can I not view love as MORE than me?

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Lostpoet · M Best Comment

From the bottom of my heart, I do not know.
But you aren't the only one feeling this way I think it's probably the majority of people out there.

I've seen the way you take care of your sister, and you have always made smart posts, and you are creative, and you have a really nice smile, and you really don't have a reason to feel insecure because you have the best qualities that go into a person.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Lostpoet That is truly kind, ty so much🥺 🦋

GerOttman · 61-69, M

On the one hand I think you have every reason to be intimidated by love. It's a heck of a thing to love someone, not to mention being strong enough to let someone else love you back. You have to drop all the walls that keep you safe and just let someone walk right into your heart. It's a helluva risk... just saying!

TexChik · F

It’s not intimidating for me but it is all consuming , even though I am still in it, have it , and give it to others …I want more . You might be one of those that is so afraid of losing it you won’t allow yourself to have it for fear it will be taken from you. Nothing is risk free…but it’s worth the risk 😊

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

Have you always felt this way

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Bklynbadboy12 Well, for about the last decade ..so many years.

Bang5luts · M

Get naked. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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