Tell him you don't want to be his gf then.

There's not much point in meeting if you're not going to talk. Just have a nice lunch by yourself.

You need to google the term codependence. Until you learn to be happy by yourself, you will never be happy with someone else. He doesn't feel like meeting? You have alone time. That SHOULD make you happy.

ummm.. that depends on the situation at the time. At least he was honest with you is all I can say. Some would have lied and came up with some other pathetic excuse. Life happens, people get tired. Not every meeting will go on.

Upset😓angsty, fretting and flustered

Then rather than meeting and arguing, accept what he’s said about not meeting and find something else to do.

Drop a day's worth of his favourite snacks at his door and let him be for the day

Give the space