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awhitedot · 46-50, M
People have needs. Conversation and connection is one of them. Having conversations is harmless. You know where your heart lies.
No it's part of the purpose of this social site. Based on the need for membership mutual support.
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
No iam literally always alone to talk about anything is a a relaxing way
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I don’t know your current situation, so I don’t know if it’s cheating or not.
awhitedot · 46-50, M
@Lovetrick that’s not a good sign.
Lovetrick · 36-40, F
@awhitedot He is always on his phone
awhitedot · 46-50, M
@Lovetrick definitely a red flag for a new relationship. He really should be a bit more focused on you if you are lacking attention. I can promise it won’t get better over time if this is the way it’s starting. There is a time and place to be on your phone but if it causes him to neglect your needs that’s a problem.
gdon39 · 41-45, M
I think you are just fine. We struggle don’t we.

Would you be open to a chat about anything? You control the topic and I am looking forward to a chat
Fallflower · 46-50, F
Only you really know in your heart if it’s cheating. But from your question it seems you do know something needs to change or you will remain lonely. The chats are like popping a pain pill for something that needs surgery. Takes the edge off for a while. 😕 I’ve been there several times and it sucks. Hugs
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
I talk with strangers all the time, my wife knows and is fine with it.

I also know there are boundaries not to cross, and I don't cross them.
SW-User
Whatever makes you happy 🙂
antonioioio · 70-79, M
You can talk to who you like, nobody owns you and it's not cheating ❤️
Rambler · M
Your heart will tell you what's right or wrong but it sounds as though your situation is lacking
No, you're not doing [i]anything [/i] wrong. You're doing everything [i]right.[/i]

Chatting up with strangers is perfectly fine on SW. It's a safe place to do it.

Sorry about your loneliness.
Let me know if you'd like to chat.
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
Plenty of people are here to talk
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
Chat is not cheating it’s making friendships
Your heart already knows the answer. Why do you remain unhappily in a relationship that is unsatisfying? Find a partner who truly loves you. Love has no tricks.
You’re fine.
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
I chat here because I can and also lonely
I look at it this way. If you can't turn to your partner when you're feeling lonely, something's wrong with the relationship, but it's not necessarily cheating.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
You're allowed to have friends and can still respect your relationship. You'll know if you're talking about something inappropriate or feel a need to hid things from your partner. Those would not be respectful behaviors.

You should also be openly, calmly and candidly discussing your loneliness with your partner.
Its ok to talk to strangers but if you are doing or saying inappropriate things then its inappropriate
If you're not having sexual discussions or sending nudes you should be OK. Not to be overly simple, but that would pretty much sum it up.🤷‍♂️
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Disguised · 56-60, M
If you have to ask then yes...
bhatjc · 46-50, M
What you do if your business miss
thedesi123 · 51-55, C
No, not at all.
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
A talk about anything is the way to go
Does it matter what others think? If its fine by you, that's half the battle

 
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