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No disrespect, but I’m no longer sharing personal feelings on here.

I will be supportive of others. I will acknowledge your feelings and care without giving advice because I understand I don’t know your story.

But nobody even knows me and they act like they know what’s best for me 😆 [b]NO[/b]

[b]I can’t do things your way, you cannot do them mine[/b] ✌️
scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M
The site has people who make fun of you and bring you down with abrasive comments too soon.

Stay away from them.

It is hard to find good people who are really wanting to know on a personal without hurting / harming / back stabbing / gossiping.

Stay blessed 🙏
SW-User
@scorpiolovedeep I agree, I was made fun of and belittled that’s why I don’t post personal stories anymore.
scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M
That’s ok too, you got to do and protect yourself 🙏@SW-User
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
This is so true

What works for one does not always for another. We all have experienced different things, and even if we experience something similar, we handle things in our own ways! We have different desires and ideas.

I think people mean well when they do this, I’m pretty sure I’m guilty of it myself at times
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I wish a few things for SW, but people in general..
1.) I wish people understood that unsolicited advice and criticism isn’t helpful
2.) unless someone asks for your opinion, keep it to yourself.
3.) don’t talk smack about people ( conceptually or directly) and act surprised they have a retort
4.) don’t ask questions you don’t actually want a variety of answers to
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@WhateverWorks if life worked that way it would be pretty chill. Imagine the things we could learn from each other. 🖤
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
I have learned too, that is for the best. Coming here in a vulnerable state is really asking for trouble. Plus it's more of a troll+pedo haven than it ever was, and too much unecessary negativity. Plus if you disagree or have your own POV and you are passionate you get reported because Muh Freeze Peace only applies to whatever they like.

Still, I get more emotional support from here than my asshat parents.

Doesn't mean it is good to be on here. Just means my patents should have been aborted.
Punxi · 26-30, F
Sometimes we jus' gotta put those 20 inch blades on our mental Impala ...an he's Balla...shot call a!
SW-User
I know what you mean. I don’t share personal issues about my life anymore because I end up getting rude and insensitive comments. Do what is best for you to avoid these jerks from making you feel worse with their vile comments.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@SW-User I can’t imagine kicking someone when they’re down but people jump all over the chance.

Thank you 🤗
SW-User
Me neither, it’s very cruel. I mean if they don’t like our posts they can just ignore it. If they don’t have anything positive to say then don’t say anything at all.

You are welcome 🤗 @AlchemyFox
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I have been on the receiving end of this sort of thing too.

I think that many people, even well-meaning people, simply do not know how to express support and empathy without giving advice. We live in a world where the emphasis is on "doing" and not on "being."
Respected, I understand why some. I'll never burden you with the thought of what you should do.
@AlchemyFox It's hardly a flaw. I feel it's a gift, but I feel I understand, I fear opening up too people fearing they won't feel my care. I have to fight closing up. I wish I had more of a tough shell, but I don't. But I have learned a few trades there.

Continue being sensitive, but know when to heal yourself.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@thewindupbirdchronicles Ah I hear that!

[quote]fearing they won't feel my care[/quote]

It hurts 😆 but also it feels like the source is eternal. Love. It can be draining too though. But I wonder if that draining feeling is from unrequited kindness or from fear of it. Are you mostly introverted?
@AlchemyFox In a way, yes.. But an empath to boot, philosophically open, lover of people and emotions...
plungesponge · 41-45, M
heck, I don't share my feelings anywhere. The chance of someone actually caring rather than just waiting to give a speech about their opinion is a bad bet
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@plungesponge so true
SW-User
I understand why you feel that way. I don't anymore either. You seem like a good person that is doing her best.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@SW-User Thank you, you too 🤗 And yeah I think it’s for the best. I should know better by now 😆
SW-User
Yes, this site is for fun and not for psychological appointments
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@SW-User I used to believe in sharing and expressing my feelings but then I realized nobody understands or gives a shit 😆
SW-User
@AlchemyFox That is true :)
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Advice is just that nobody has to heed it.
SW-User
Ok - then disappear.


Like you'll be missed.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@SW-User what does our gender have to do with anything? I don’t know YOU.

I don’t assume anything, I thought that I was transparent about that. I’ve always been on here for the misfits and weirdos. So you clearly don’t know me either.

Idc if you’re male or female 😆 leave your unevolved thoughts in your head. Not all women hate men.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@WhateverWorks but I like to play 🦊
That's a very wise decision👍
kodiac · 22-25, M
Don't try and fix me[media=https://youtu.be/uKJ_6HOhKFI]
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@kodiac fr though. I got this, even when I’m out of control 🏎️
Avocadolover · 13-15, F
Magenta · F
[quote]But nobody even knows me and they [i]act like they know what’s best for me[/i] 😆 NO
I can’t do things your way, you cannot do them mine [/quote]
Spot on! 💟
Amylynne · 26-30, F
save it for private and after real trust
SW-User
I stopped it years ago, talking about anything deeply personal at first gains support but eventually ends up with online drama.. It's just the way it is
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I understand that. I try not to tell people what to do but give support when they need it.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@iamonfire696 a little acknowledgment is usually all that’s needed 🖤
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@AlchemyFox that’s what I think too. I am not in that persons shoes so I think it’s very presumptuous to tell someone what to do.

 
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